TTC after a Miscarriage - no 2, let the fun begin!!!!

[Diddle]

Here we go girls, a brand new thread, i was so fed up of paging down over the other 1000 messages.

MaddyD I think the rule of thumb is the as long as it isn't still remaining in your body when you are ttc then its ok.
When my sister was ttc if her AF arrived she would eat Brie (as that is her fav) as she thought it wouldn't matter but when she mentioned this to the doctor he told her the harmfull bugs (is it listeria) can remain in your body for much longer. Most drugs ie hayfever tablets completely leave your system in 3 days.

BTW I saw my GP today and she perscribed me some antibiotics that should clear up the UT infection if I have it she says if it still feels strange in 3 days then to bring in a sample.

Am trying to focus on other things atm and am almost looking forward to the Ofsted visit as I will be able to ask the inspector about taking on an assistant

xena do you know when you're visit is??? and when was your last one before this one?

xena do you know when you're visit is??? and when was your last one before this one?

No I don't know when my visit is I have requested they come to inspect the part of my house they didn't reg when we moved here 18mths ago. I haven't ever had a proper inspection, I called them to ask if I had been over looked and they said no they just hadn't actioned one yet (I've been reg 2.5ys )

Hello ladies

Well, it was my first day back at work today and was quite busy. Was just doing OK apart from every customer I had an appointment with wheeled a pushchair in but then I finally cracked when this girl brought in a big pram and when I had a peek it was a gorgeous newborn girl lying there. Work were really good about it and asked if I was ready to return and yes I am because if I stay at home I get even more depressed so I WILL return tomorrow. One poor girl didn't know and asked me if I was crying because I was missing my DD.

When I went to the toilet at work when I got there I found a big clot on my pad and I think it might have been the baby-I feel so sad to think we have to flush our babies down the toilet

Xena-I know what you mean about the sonographers-they click and press and don't show you the screen so you immediately know all is not well then put on a glum face and say I'm sorry but you have miscarried. I know that they are only doing their job but that image stays with us. Please be careful if taking antibiotics when TTC as some of them can cause your baby to be born with black bones and teeth-the bones you can't see but of course you can the teeth. My friend told me this a while ago when I was on them as her Doctor told her. I think it depends on the type though.

Maddyd-how are you today-did you have as much sleep as me last night-0 hours?

Diddle, HellKat, spacecadet, Lottielou, RachelRog, Tabs, Cori and anyone else I might have forgotten - BIG HUGS to you all!

It has rained here all day so at least my DH hasn't gone out on his motorbike as I have started to worry that I won't see him again when he goes out to his bike club.

Well, I'm missing Eastenders so must go.

Bye for now
x

HC I'm not ttc yet as i'm on the pill but I've never heard of black bones??

hellkat-dd1 has one of those crazy wrap machines, im her guinea pig!

Humphreyscorner - (((((((hugs)))))))) to you, sounds like you did a good job at work today, i'm surprised you held it together as long as you did. You did great, and yes it horrible to know that we could be flushing our babies down the toilet, so sad. filling up now.
Bloody Hormones, Af's fault, i get emotional enough at the best of times.

Look after yourself.

xxx

Just watching Michale Jackson leaving court on the news, verdict NOT Guilty. finally its over.

I hadn't either until my friend told me-very worrying. Sorry, didn't realise you were still on the pill.

x

I just knew Michael Jackson would be found 'Not Guilty'. I think he is a boy that hasn't grown up due to missing out on his childhood.

Bedtime now

Sweet dreams all and big hugs.

x

Morning all.
Diddle- had a great day thankyou. Damian's back to being a sweetie (tooth's just about through).
HC-{{{{Hugs}}}} back at you hun. You poor thing. Hope today's better for you.
Maddy- Glad you had a good day! Did you manage to sleep any better?
Space- Sounds fun! I liked the look of those when I saw them advertised.
Xena- Hope you're feeling better too.
Have a great day all xxxxxxxxxx

Morning everyone,

Very dark and damp in the midlands this morning, hope it brightens up.
Have a good day
time for breakfast

Same here Diddle. Really miserable. Hope it perks up.

Morning All,
Am so sorry for keeping you all in suspense. I had got into work yesterday and was home by 9.30am as i was being sick and coudln't stop. Spent the day in bed.
Diddle - Sorry i didn't reply to your texts you were right i had no credit, i have lost my swipe card thing to get it topped up, DP was searchiong frantically for it so i cud text you back but no luck. I have to get a new one registered now! I was asleep when you called, only listened to your message this morning when i woke up. Thank you for being so concerned i was really touched, i burst out crying when i heard it.
Anyway sorry for that, the news you have been waiting for isn't very good. I sent DP out at lunch yesterday to get my some CB digitals. I did one and it came up 'Not Pregant' i am not giving up hope tho, as i worked out the dates and i was only due on on Sunday or Monday so am going to test again on Thursday.
I am feeling so rotten, still haven't has any AF pains and have been throwing up! Who knows hey!
anyway have staks to do, love ya'll

Morning all. yes i did sleep better ta. I went about midnight and got up at 7.30 so it was mor quality sleep. Miserable day in the South. Sun keeps peeping through but then changes its mind,

I have a flower on my rose tree, hooray. Im gonna fall pg this month. That is my sign.

Lottie are you not due till the weekend coming then????

maddyd - i've got 4 or five bright pink roses on mine now too, and the 2nd one now has buds i'm so proud of it, and the fact ive kept it alive all this time.

Lottielou - THANK GOD you're alive, was getting a little worried. I realised after i'd left you're message that it may have sounded like diddle was my surname. Its not.
Sorry to hear you're not well, but i'm very pleased you're alive, thought you'd carked it.
Thats the additude, stay positive, you never know that BFP could be on its way, i hope so.
Missed you. I though maybe you'd be rushed to hospital or something, was planning when i could visit you and everything. phew, feel so relieved now.

Maddyd - I was due on the sunday just gone!
Diddle - Oh bless huni, ur so sweet. Thankyou for caring so much, i am really touched! No hospital visits for you so be resy assured. If it were to ever happen i wud get DP top let you know.
I am trying to be positive but think i may be a little over positive, i may be setting myself up for one hell of a fall. I hope not.
I have 2 CB digi tests to use, i hope i only have to use the one but hey ho! The wait is on now until Thurs, unless AF comes that is!
So how are you Diddles? what you been upto? Nice weekend?
Hope the rest of you are all o.k? x x x

lottie - feeling a bit rough myself, got an abcess in my gum, taking antibiotics for it, so hopefully it will be gone by the time i go on holiday, apart from that, just very low on energy. can't wait to go away. Finish work on Friday and then off a week tomorrow. hooray
I wonder if you're sickness was a bug or ms?
hope you dod get you're BFP. got it all crossed for you.

I think i've got repetitive strain injury from mumsnet, my shoulders are killing me, too much typing

hows everyone else???? haven't heard from some of you for ages.
Strike? cori? tabs? anyone else who has vanished?
where are you all?

IIIISSSSS TTTTTHHHHHEEEERRRREEEE AAANNNNYYYYBBBBOOODDDYYYY TTTTHHHHEEERRRREEE?????

i think you should all stop working and get typing. Maybe its a good thing that you're all not depending on Mumsnet all day, unlike me.

I'm still here, been busy but watching you all......hmm that sounds creepy. Didn't have much to say lately as I was waiting for bleeding to stop, but it has now!!!! So all I have to do now is wait for AF to start and I can start planning. Stocked up on ov and pg test of all descriptions to keep me amused. sorry to hear you've been feeling ill Lottie and diddle.

Hope all are well and bding like mad! :0

strike - very pleased to see you're still with us. I'm stocked up too, ready for the next cycle, just waiting for AF to stop too. Look after yourself and you carry on lurking and stalking us all as long as you want.

I thought I'd stock up before going away. Going to my husband parents place in France for a big family thing next week and I'll be there for a few weeks (with internet access so I won't miss anything) but I don't want to get caught out and drink to much wine or indulge in too much Cheese! Where are you going on holiday diddle, are you off soon?

Sounds lovely strike, the food in france is so nice, dont think i'd be able to resist the wine or cheese either.
I'm going to Fuertaventura a week tomorrow, juts Dh and I, and i know where the internet cafe is and i'm just checking if the hotel has internet access. Can't wait to be out of Engalnd though, will be lovely to get away from it all.