TTC after a Miscarriage - no 2, let the fun begin!!!!

[Diddle]

Here we go girls, a brand new thread, i was so fed up of paging down over the other 1000 messages.

Aww sorry to hear that Humphreys. It's a total b*tch having to wear pads in this heat I agree. Feel like I'm wearing a nappy. Grr at you mil! I'm lucky, mine's lovely. Can't ever imagine her buying dp knickers and socks though.
Well done for chucking the old ones!

Morning All.
Oh Diddle I am so sorry that AF came, what a b*tch. At least in a way you are thinking positive. It will be you next month. Big Hugs huni bunch x x How are you feeling now?
Hi to everyone else, haven't had time to read all of the thread, just checked in to see how you all were, will read up at lunch! x
Love Ya'll x x x

Morning Lottie! How are you?
Be back little later all. Got to get cleaning.
Take care.
xxx

Diddle......so sorry. It's absolutely gutting isn't it......when I didn't get pregnant straight away I consoled myself by thinking that my body must not be ready.....

your body has been through a really traumatic time with your 2 m/c very close together and sustaining a little beanie needs your hormones and everyting else to be tip top......doesn't help with the pain but bet you that it will be you saying you have a BFP in 4 weeks time!

Do you have any OPK's left cos I have 6 that need a good home if you want them. My email address is [email protected]
Email your address and I'm post them to you chick.

Hello to all and think I will hang around with you all until I know all is well with my little beanie.

XX

thanks rachelrog - got loads of opks thank you for thinking of me though.
It is gutting, but you're right, my body must not be ready. i'm alright i think, just in a lot of pain, seems more painful since the m/c's very achy. horrible actually because it just reminds me of what it felt like losing the babies.
But i've go plenty to do the keep me busy.
Took the little ones to the garden centre this morning and we've bought them each a little plant to look after, they loved it, plus it has a pet centre too, so we watched the hamsters and rabbits for ages.
Cheered me up just watching them enjoy themselves.

I have come to a decision, that i'm not going to build my hopes up this month. I'm not going to work out a due date based on my period, or do any tests until AF is due, not get my hopes up and look on baby websites until i need to, because i'm just setting myself up for a possible fall.
I'm going to eat weel, and be healthy and look after myself and my DH and if we get pregnant then it will be the right time.
I had forgotten about the green tea, will have to go and get some over the weekend, and see what its like, and if its horrible i think i will have to hold my nose and down it

Lottielou - if you have your BFP this month, which i really hope you do, we will still be pushing our little bundles of joy around merryhill, there might just be a few months between them, fingers crossed for you, are you due on, on Tuesday???

oh diddle im so sorry that AF came,, it will be your turn soon, i promise.

hope so i think maybe going away will help me to relax and perhaps put it to the back of my mind for a while, I should be ov while we're away so maybe the holiday will give me a chance to rest and conceive, without being surrounded by the normal stress of life.
thats the plan anyway.

it might help, being in a diff enviroment

How are you feeling spacecadet? everything okay so far?

Diddle...being on hols whilst ovulating sounds VERY promising!! Perfect conditions for conception....

Where are you going?

I think that you will find no matter how much you tell yourself not to calculate dates, etc you probably still will.......we just like to torture ourselves with wishful thinking don't we?

I must say you really do sound like you will make the most perfect mum as you obviously love children loads and you do lots of fab things with the ones you childmind.

Rachelrog - I am now sobbing, you made me cry, thank you, i want to be a mom so much.

Going to Fuertaventura in 12 days, and counting!!!

How are you Rach, you doing ok?

I'm ok Diddle....still letting the idea of being p/g sink in.

Wish I could scream it from the rooftops but Dh wants us to keep it quiet until after scan on 12th July......just in case.

I think he wants to do this because last time we told everyone when I was about 6 weeks and my ds was over the moon....so ds was really upset when we said that the baby seed did not grow. He really wants a baby brother or sister as all his friends at school have brothers and sisters and he doesn't understand why he hasn't. My fault really as was concentrating on work and time has just flown by.....now ds is 5 and will be 6 when this baby is born.

I have aslo worked full time and my mother-in-law had my son for me, she is in her 60's and so did not think she could manage with another one. Now my father-in-law is retiring they have said they will look afte baby between them and I will work 2 days in the week and Saturdays(when dh can have the children)

Ihope it all works out this time. I keep telling myself that the chances on having 2 missed m/c must be small???? But I have read other mumsnetters who have had more than 1.

Hi All!
Diddle - Well I am due on around Sunday onwards, i calcualted it and that will be 34 days, my cycle is usually around 34-36 so it could be anytime. I hope she doesn't show tho. (obviously) Haven't had any pains which i always get before AF, but i am feeling rather bloated and puffy which i get when AF comes but am not buidling any hopes around the fact i haven't had any pains. You watch, i shall get them tonight! LOL
We shall certainly be pushing our bundles around Merry Hill whenever we have our arrivals. Its a must!
How are you feeling now hun?

how is everyone else today? Appologies, still haven't had chance to read down the thread. x

diddle-im feeling a bit tired and nauseaus.
i think your holiday sounds like it might be the ideal oppurtunity to conceive, being in a more relaxed atmosphere away from home can only help

fingers crossed for you lottielou.

Thanks spacecadet, please keep them as tight as you can for me! Sorry your feeling crappy, i hope i can feel like that soon! I hope we all can! x
What you got planned for the weekend? x

im going to london tomorrow to see a top consultant in inner ear problems, my mum and stepdad are coming down from wales bringing ds2 back as he has spent a week with them, so a busy weekend! Will you test thisweekend if af stays away??

I hope everyone will soon be complaining of feeling crappy too!!!>

Spacecadet....how many weeks and days p/g are you? Have your symptoms just started??

I usually get really bad m/s which should start soon.

Rachelrog - The chances of having 2 m/c's is pretty slim a very small percentage i think, saying that i've had 2. But they do say that it is unlikely, i was told it was classed as "bad luck" and thats why they don't start testing after 2.
Stay positive, i'm sure you're pregnancy will go really well, you deserve it. Sounds like you ahve life planned which is good.

Spacecadet - sorry you're not feeling too good, but its for a very good reason, so thrilled for you.

Lottielou - Hope you're having an ok day and that you get you're BFP soon, feel free to text me over the weekend if you do a test and want to announce it. i'd love to hear from you. fingers crossed as tight as possible.

Spacecadet - I may just do a test but leave it till Monday morning if AF does stay away! I promised myself i wudn't test till a good few days after AF is due. Dont think wi will be able to resist tho! We shall see.
Diddle - If i do decide to test you will be the 2nd to know the result! I do hop ei can announce it but have a horrid feeling i will be on here Monday morning telling you all of my BFN!
I've had quite a good day today, got quite a few booking for my Ann Summers so thats going well. Am having a chilled weekend, i'm sure i shall fit some running in there tho!
What you got planned? x

Diddle-I would agree with you on the not working out your days bit as DH and I said that we definitely didn't want a baby at Christmas so for the first time I didn't go on Paternityangel.com and work out my dates. Hey presto, I got PG with a due date of 15th December. We were delighted of course but sadly it wasn't to be.

When I have had a successful proper AF I might try that method again so good luck you and hope it works this month!

Hugs
x

Well my lovelies, i will love and leave you for the weekend.
Hope you all have a fab weekend.
Take care and will let you know the results of my test on Monday morning!
Diddle - Will text you over the weekend huni x look after yourself! x
Love Ya'll x x x x x x xx