How can I help a friend with 3 failed attempts?

[Ruth12]

I have a friend who is heartbroken by the latest IVF failure. I only know that they have had another failed attempt though a family member. It is obviously so difficult for her and her husband that they have only told a few family members. I feel so upset for them but don?t want to speak to them about it if they don?t want to keep discussing it with people. What can I do??

link I've nicked this off you Munz, as I thought it'd help here?

send her a card - say you are there if she wants to talk or have a shoulder to cry one.

If it was me i would go visit her and see if she would say somthing if not i would approch her about it.
It all depends on how well you know her, she may be glad to have somone to talk to outside of family.