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Emmsy's onwards and upwards part six - sticky icky babydust BFP central!!!

987 replies

Curlywurlee · 05/07/2009 12:32

Here's a shiny new thread named especially for 4ever, let this be the one where we get lots and lots of new BFPs and everyone's pants get bigger

Ever onwards and upwards for all of you lovely ladies

OP posts:
GracieGirl · 08/07/2009 14:29

4ever this time I got a pos opk on monday and we BD'd twice on sunday, and once on tuesday, wednesday and thursday and that worked for us. I vote that once more for good luck tonight can't hurt!

4everhopeful · 08/07/2009 15:01

Aww bless Grumpygracie for shunning dressing gown with non matching tie for white coat & positive story for me! Hug for you honey xx You are describing me this time last year I got signed off with pg3 for about 8 wks & spent most of it in dressing gown, slumped about, being unconstructive & hardly leaving the house, obsessing about everything & getting quite down. Think thats when I first started feeding obsession lurking on MN! (took me about 3m to post tho!) You carry on sweetie. You have a bean to protect & worry about so you have a licence to do wtf you like!

bluesatinsash · 08/07/2009 15:10

Gracie - we're all allowed grumpy mare days so be easy on yourself girl! Feel for you this week with anniversary of lost bean (I completely lost the plot at 8 weeks as lost both prev. ones then) but remember this is a brand new shiny pg and you already have successful scan under belt. Two weeks feels like an age to wait for a scan but it will be here and your DH will be there holding your hand.

re: asprin, my gynae consultant advised me to take it (one 75mg per day) from one month before ttc. It doesn't cause any side affects on baby as its such a low dose but thins blood enough that if poor blood flow to growing placenta was cause of previous mc, then asprin may be the answer . Even if it is merely a placebo affect, its better than nothing and makes us feel we're doing something positive.

Annie - enjoy seeing you bigger baby today

Just back from midwife appointment and got to hear baby's hearbeat - 170 bpm, quite high and loud and soooo reassuring, well for today! Explained about blood results and not wanting amnio etc. and she did say if I come back high they could move my 20 week scan forward so anything suspicious would be known earlier to give me longer to prepare.

Better get on, was taken late at GP's (I'd actually nodded off ) so out of office for an hour - eek!

Joolsiam · 08/07/2009 15:13

Hello Grumpygracie Maybe we can cheer you up ??

Blue the thought of you falling asleep in a GP waiting room made me laugh ! Here's hoping you weren't snoring or dribbling

"4Ever - I think I'm going to embroider your name on that white coat (well I would if I could sew - you use it to such good effect Thanks for the info (also to Blue* - shall start taking the aspirin tomorrow I think

bluesatinsash · 08/07/2009 15:14

Meant to say Gracie - get some 'Sudocrem' for your tummy. Its for nappy rash/burns etc. but I use it for any rash really and its the business.

4everhopeful · 08/07/2009 16:23

No probs Jools its a pleasure! id rather you embroider some bigpants for me tho please!
Must of been lovely to hear h/b Blue - midwife sounds v reassuring re nuchal & bloods..
Gracie hon didnt realise an anniversary was coming up.. Me too, have a bit of a dark cloud following me cos keep thinking - this time last year - it was my 13week Pgno3, was getting scanned every week & then a trisomy problem picked up on nuchal scan, we spent our 1st wedding anniversary waiting to go back to fetal meds to see what was wrong/could be done & went back on the 15th to see our baby had died.. Its crap when edds or anniversarys come up, thats when you wanna scream at everyone in RL cos no-one possibly understyands, but we all do hon - thank god xxxxxxxxxxx

Off home now to veg in front of our massive new telly... xxxxxx

VJaybigpants · 08/07/2009 16:30

I can't keep up with you all sorry but I'll give it a go,
meramid has the evil witch got you yet or not?
blue thanks for the papoos link, I'm thinking of getting something similar, but they do look complicated. Lovely to hear the hb too
Welcome to tatfiter is that how you spelt it? You are in the right place for humour and support
annie hope the scanning is going well today.
cupcake lovely pic

That's it, I can't remember everything!!!I'm so tired I was up from half one to half three this morning, just wandering around the house burping and peeing....peeing in the toilet definatly tmi there

My dh made me laugh yesterday, he was listening to the radio and a man called Jo was being interviewed about Michael Jackson, and the interviewer asked him 'if he was a fan Jo?' and dh started to laugh. I said what's do funny, and he said Fanjo!!!Men!!! He's obviously peeked over my shoulder a few times cos how else would he know???

hopingalways · 08/07/2009 16:37

ladies will post properly this evening, but going mad and need to be pulled back to reality...

for a few days now been feeling a bit queasy, dizzy, had slightly swollen boobs and odd taste in my mouth...and AF . very light AF, even by my standards [hmmm].

I'm going mad, aren't I ladies? AF is AF, I can't possibly be pg, can I?

VJaybigpants · 08/07/2009 16:40

hoping just to add to your confusion, when I was pg with ds my af was light, very light for me, so that's why I did a test and it was positive!

MummyLovesSadie · 08/07/2009 16:56

AAAAAAAAGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I JUST WANT A FU**ING BABY

MrsKate · 08/07/2009 17:05

thanks girls for the support i really apreciate it . i am struggleing with it at mo . dh was sick loads this morning and every moring as stressed to go to work i just broke down .couldnt get to sleep for ages . so feel rubbish now and one more night to go

gracie dollie the collie misses you and gives you bigs kisses(licks) xx

mls i want a baby too so much and i do think that we need to get the basters at the ready with jools

VJaybigpants · 08/07/2009 17:29

mls and kate it will happen, I've been there at the point of desperation and look now, stay strong, but rant away on here too it really does clear the mind.

VJaybigpants · 08/07/2009 17:35

me again, mls and kate I think one of the hardest things is the waiting....waiting for 1st af after mc, then the bloody 2ww, etc....I just hated the waiting. I really feel for you both, you're both going through such hard but different situations, but we emmsy's are always hear to 'listen'.

MrsKate · 08/07/2009 17:36

thanks vjay xxxx

iggypiggy · 08/07/2009 17:46

i hate ttc

well I like the BD action bit...

but the rest is rubbish

MrsKate · 08/07/2009 17:56

bd for me and dh has turned into a chore and and non existant at the mo . why is is so difficult to have a baby . it shoulnt be this hard (pardon the pun )

iggypiggy · 08/07/2009 17:59

is not chore - but prob is finding the time on some days

Joolsiam · 08/07/2009 18:00

Well, if you pardon the pun - its not been that "hard"over here, which is why I'm still TTC !!

MummyLovesSadie · 08/07/2009 18:44

Jools once again nearly spat my alcoholic beverage over my Mac! We have the same problem which is exactly why we need to find that darned lab!

Joolsiam · 08/07/2009 20:11

Well I was kinda hoping it might make you smile

anniebigpants · 08/07/2009 20:17

Evening ladies, well, i had my scan today and ive came away quite worried. Sonographer wasnt too friendly, i had to go into scan room by myself first, sonographer was scanning for ages with the screen towards her and keep going 'hmm', she then asked me what my dates were and said 'ive just got to speak to one of the consultants, i'll be back in a sec', well you can imagine what was going through my mind, she came back into room smiling, i blurted out'is everything okay, is there a heartbeat', she said 'Yes of course, you've got a real livewire in there', then went on to explain that even though the consultant at my 12 week scan dated me as 4 days further on, she shouldnt have changed my dates as the EDD from my 9 week scan would have been more accurate, she couldnt see the kidneys clearly so wants me to go back for a re scan in 2 weeks. What has got me really worried though is she told me baby has CPC,s (choroid plexus cysts) one either side in its head, she told me there is no other 'soft markers' present to indicate there is a problem, and these CPC,s are likely to have disappeared by 22-24 weeks. Of course the first thing i did was google CPC,s when i got home this evening, it is a marker (along with other things) for Edwards syndrome, a life limiting condition, more common in older woman, i can tick that box then.
The rational part of me thinks-'if she was at all concerned she would have told me, and probably suggested amnio' but im afraid i cant think rationally .
DH was so worried, im playing it down, he thinks im cool about it, as i dont want to spoil his holidays, we've had enough shit to worry about this year already.
Sorry for the rambling self obsessed post, i dont really want to talk to any of my friends in RL about this, i know you ladies will understand.

anniebigpants · 08/07/2009 20:18

Forgot to say thank you for all the kind wishes yesterday and today, means a lot to me.

Joolsiam · 08/07/2009 20:22

Annie - I remembered a thread I'd read ages ago and have gone and found it - VERY reassuring - read the 3rd newest post

here

anniebigpants · 08/07/2009 20:27

Thank you Jools for that very helpful link.The 3rd newest post was very reassuring. Think i need to stop googling so much and just try and forget about it.

MummyLovesSadie · 08/07/2009 20:35

Oh Annie I so wish I could fast-forward things for you just to reassure you that everything will be ok. Jools that link was brilliant. These bloody doctors & sonographers seem to have no bloody idea how much of an impact not only every word but every intonation of every word they say has on us.

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