TMI alert. I've just started TTC no.2 (I have a DS of 19 months). I'm doing symptothermal charting again, and one of things I'm trying to spot is changes in my cervix. Last time round, although my cervix changed position during the month, it always felt quite firm, and the little hole just felt like a small dimple. This time round, I have been really surprised to find that the cervix is very soft, and the hole is really noticeable (even more so now I'm in the middle of my cycle). Is this kind of change normal after you've had children, or is there something else going on??