Hi boodleboot, first of all, hugs and kisses to u, I know JUST hw u feel, having had 3 mc's, 2 mmc, where I went for scan and was told the same as you, it is devastating, I had a "straightforward" mc first time, when my dd(prev relationship) was around 2 and a
half, then another mc about 4 mnths later which was the mmc, went for 12 week scan same as u, expecting all 2 be fine, sadly the bby had died at week 8, had a d&c then got pregnant again early June 06 and had a beautiful bby boy March 07, bled loads thru tht preg, and always thought I was gnna lose him too, but we didn't! He does have a genetic disorder, by some horrible twist, a one off, as me and my dp of 6 1/2 years have bn tested, we are ok, so less than 1% chance it happening again, but we do go thru a lot, or rather my son does, th worst thing is severe epilepsy, he cant walk yet either and won't for a while, then Jan'08 another mmc, but despite all this we are nw on 2nd mnth of trying for #3
So pls do not lose hope, life is really really shit sometimes, and cruel,as I knw only too well, but pls pls keep yr chin up and stay strong xxxx