Twenties ttc -- all aboard!!!!!

[seanybosmummy]

Hey girls here's the new thread

So sorry af got you whitty
I hope your enjoying your treats.

Well i am officially having the weirdest af in history (my own history obviously lol). Bleeding is slowing down again, almost stopping if im honest. So i therefore had 5 days of sporadic spotting followed by one day of full flow (lighter than normal and not clotty at all, sorry for tmi ladies), and now it is ebbing away. huh???

Anyways onwards and upwards .

Bding fest this month (dp cant wait) lol going to be sooooooo tired considering ds has decided he likes to wake up at 5.45am every morning now and demand a bobo, downstairs and peppa (meaning a bottle of milk, and downstairs to watch peppa pig) lol He has also started to copy what we're saying-we had an oh shit moment when we were out shopping on friday,and an oh jesus moment this morning when his nappy leaked onto his jammies . Dp and i have been trying extra hard to watch what we're saying in front of him.

Anyway im sure you are all starting to think i am writing a novel here so i am going to take myself off to beddy byes now+ill check on tomorrow to see how you're all doing.

Hope your head feels better bubble

Nitey nite ladies

ps god i just read that back and i was on such a ramble there!! oops sorry about that

Hey ladies...today is such a down day...im bleeding but no cramping so I guess I cant complain my cycles keep changing they went from 29 days to 33 days to now 37 days. Meanwhile im at work and its clean up day some b.s truely my mum called me complaining about some b.s. I wish everyone who is bringing more stress in my life would leave me be. But how is everyone and seany your cycle is tripping but I cant talk because mine is doing that too

Hey girls,

How are you all doing? whitty i know how frustrating it is when af goes a bit up the left. Mines went away yesterday and now i am spotting again this morning I honestly don't know what it could be, its doing my head in.

whitty does your mum know you're ttc?
I know its hard when everyone keeps moaning or confiding their problems in you, but you have to remember that they have no idea the stress your going thru yourself, with ttc and trying to work out afs cryptic code.
Though i know at times you feel like just saying "piss off!" lol

Anyone else have any news?
Hows your head bubble?

ant hows your tummy been?

Just updating for today while im on:

Antdamm ttc#2 UCL ?? CD5
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 UCL 28 CD18
Joy27 TTC#1 - On Sabbatical
Kay4Matt ttc#1 UCL 25-35 CD30
RTuff TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL 28-36 CD7
Seanybosmummy ttc#2 cycle 12 UCL 30 CD4
SuziBhoy ttc#1 UCL ?? CD27
Whittywantababy6 TTC#1 Cycle ? UCL 28-29 CD39
Everysinglestar TTC#1 WAITING TIL JULY

BFPs :
Madmissy

Suzi and kay have you tested yet?

Hey Ladies,

Sorry I have gone AWOL, We are moving. Yay! We get away from our horrible neighbour - we've upgraded to a 4 bed detatched woo hoo. Anyhoo have been busy packing etc. Because of the changeover I will be without you ladies from marvellous mumsnet for a few days, maybe even a week!!
I don't know how i will survive.

Anyhoo down to the nitty gritty (TMI ALERT) I too am hving the weirdest AF in the history of my AF. She arrives about an hour after i wake and is gone by three or four in the afternoon and is so light that it seems wasteful to be using a tampon iyswim. So, i don't know what is going on there. I have had no bleeeuggh feeling which is the only feeling I have when she is here, so all in all a very weird visit.

Seany maybe its something in the water over here (I know you're in NI, but I'm blaming the water[wink) - As for my tummy, ive had no repeat performance, so maybe it was as the stupid lady doc said.

Hope everyone else is well, please excuse me not saying hi to everyone, Im very tired and have masses to do.

Well, I'll love ya and leave ya all for now. Good luck, happy BDing and when I return I want to see BFPs!!!

Hey ladies...I took off work to relax with my lover anywho my bleeding has stopped I bled for one day and I only had one pad...I can't say if my temps are still high I left the thermometer somewhere...

Hey girls,

good luck with your new house ant! moving is sooooo stressful, but at least you get to move away from the nasty neighbour!

My af went away yesterday and appeared again today (spotting), i don't know whats going on, it is very mucousy and ive been feeling really horrible and tired

whitty hope you had a nice relaxing day-go find that thermometer girly!!!!

Hope everyone else is doing good

I forgot to add that im getting twingy crampy pains as well-my af is so f**ked up this month grrrrr

Hi girls!

how are you all?

Ant good luck with the house move

Whitty and Seany i really feel for you. i hope that af sorts herself quickly.

Whitty i hope you enjoyed your day relaxing with your dp.

Well.. i feel a bit disappointed. after the sonographer said she saw a collapsed follicle i have yet to see a sustained thermal shift. My temp dipped down on day 15 and spiked on day 16 then has gone down a degree and stayed there for 3 days . Im not sure if its coz my thermometer is dodgey or that it only reads to 1 decimal place.? Now im worried that i havent ovulated and its not because of pcos but something more sinister. I have my day 21 blood test tomorrow so i guess i will find out if ive ovd this cycle or not later next wk. Im just petrified that af wont show for months on end again.

Sorry to go on.

hope you all have a fab weekend.

DH is away working this weekend so its just me and the boys.. i hope it is nice so we arent stuck indoors.

Hey ladies...seany your cycle is doing back flips why idk...mine has stopped completely it was only one day and its normally 7 and I didn't cramp at all...and I get really bad cramps that make me not wanna move ant im so jealous your moving I wanna move good luck...bubble I enjoyed my day off very relaxing I think imma make an appt to see why my period was only a day...and it was 4 days late..and I only spotted that one day...im just happy its gone ...anywho enjoy the day...its gloomy over here right now

Hi all, I'm back. Had a complete MC at 7 weeks. I'm ready to start again. How likely is it to get preg just after a miscarriage?

nope no testing for me not for at least another 5 days.

Hey all!

hope your all enjoying the lovely weather.

DS1 has an ear infection and is feeling really poorly

i had my blood test today so got to wait 3 days for the result. I wonder if i ovd or not????

Mum i replied on your other thread, im really sorry about your loss.

Hi girls,

mumof im so so sorry. I left a ,message for you a few days ago(its on unanswered msgs) because i was wondering how you were. I hope you are ok.

Bubble try not to worry too much,though i know it is hard-i hope you get positive answers from your blood test.

You have some patience kay!

I think i might take a trip to my doc again next week. Af disappeared on weds then came back spotting on thurs for one day and stopped by fri, but i have noticed some coloured mucusy type discharge and have been having some cramps so im a bit worried about whats going on in there. I've been feeling quite yucky the past few days as well. It was dps turn for a lie in this morning but he ended up having to get up with ds because i felt really sick and thought i was going to throw up.
im clueless!!!!!

Ant hope the house move is going ok!

seany have you tested this month? when i was pg with ds2 i had a small bleed and thought it was af. turns out it wasnt!! you never know!

i hope you feel better and get some answers soon .

Thanks Bubble, i tested with a cheapie test (on day 27 or so i think)but bfn. I had 5 days of spotting, 2 days of lighter af than normal, then disappeared for a day, then 1 more day of spotting, so there was a lot going on. It was the weirdest af in history, but i never had any cramps like i usually do, and the blood didnt start and taper off brown as it usually does either. Do you think i should get a test just incase?

I am prob just coming down with a bug cause i have been really tired and that would explain why ive been feeling so sick.

Hope ds is feeling better the poor wee man, ear infections are nasty

If i were you and af was completely different i would test.. at least then you know either way and you can put the cycle change down to you CP last month.

TTC is shite isnt it. For years you have the same predictable cycles and the minute you decide you want a baby it all goes up the spout.

DS1 is feeling much better thanks. He is prone to ear infections and his ear drum has burst 3 times before. Just glad it didnt get that bad this time.

Oh yeah def, you hit the nail on the head there bubble. With ds i wasnt monitoring cycles at all and didnt have any idea when afs were due or anything-so ignorance is def bliss.

I didnt think it was going to be this hard or stressful. I am so envious of women who manage to conceive on first cycle . That sounds awful of me but of course its only natural. But i am glad that alot of women dont have to suffer the disappointment every month, so im really not all made up of the green eyed monster

poor ds1, that sounds so painful, the poor child-glad hes feeling a bit better. Have you any plans for today? We were going to take ds to the park for a picnic but it looks like its gonna rain so we've changed our minds.

I think i might buy a cheapie test tomorrow just to put my mind at ease. i'll let you know how it goes. I dont think it will be bfp at all but id rather just rule it out and as you say put it down to change in cycle because of cp or early mc or whatever it was that happened to me last month (i'll never have a proper answer to that so i'd rather say it was a cp, as mc is just too heartbreaking)

Hope the rest of you girls are enjoying the long weekend.

seany I am the same. i feel really jealous of my sil who decided to ttc when i had my mc in feb and fell that same month!! On the same token i am pleased for her. i know how special your PFB is and this will be hers!

My sis and DN are here for dinner today. Roast beef with all the trimmings We are drinking wine and the boys are on the trampoline

My GP told me that a CP is a MC its just not been verrified by a scan.. (no scientific proof that conception occured other than the +ive hpt)

I am hoping that your test tomorrow is a bfp. that would be such good news.

have a great weekend. i hope the rain stays away

hi girls,

bubble i hope you enjoyed your dins yesterday.i made 1 too and is was gorge I wish i could like wine,i just cant drink it at all for some strange reason

i've decided not to test after all. if i am pg then i still will be by testing time this month so im just going to wait and see. and then if i do get bfp i could get a wee suprise and find out im4 weeks further on than i thought .

its been pretty quiet in here over the weekend.

whitty did you find that thermometer yet?

ant hows your new house?

Hey all, I found a temperature over the weekend it wasnt below my coverline, but this morning it was so i guess that strange af that I got was really af. Im not sure ive been feeling weird so I couldnt even say if Im still having symptoms. seany I think Im going to also wait just so Im not disapointed again id hate to go buy a test and I get a bfn. The only reason im shocked is because my last cycle was cd 33 and it lasted 7 days. This time it was cd 37 and it last 2 days and I normally am a big cramper I didnt cramp at all. And I have cm again plenty of it which i though you were normally dry after AF...sorry to ramble alot going on with me today

Hi girls!

Seany dinner was luvly

I envy your will power i wont last 4 hrs let alone 4wks

I hope that you and Whitty both get lucky this month. Think positive girls. WE CAN DO IT

Aw thanks Seany- it's lovely that someone was concerned enough to leave me a msg. I'm really down today and every tiny thing is bugging me. Keep thinking about what could have been. Magnum icecreams and biscuits are helping a little

Seany and Bubble- going through same thing at mo. SIL has started trying for a baby and she knows about the MC so I sort of feel like it's a race. It's just the way of the world though isn't it. My sister was horrible to me when I got preg last time and she was TTC. So I wouldn't be like that with SIL because I've had it done to me. Plus I'd love a lil niece or nephew to fuss over

Come on us, we can do it this month.

Aparently there's 20-25% chance of us concieving each month, and there's 80% chance in a year- those are good odds!

evening ladies.

well AF arived other night so will just update the stats (these will be correct tomorrow (adding 1 day onto them):

Whittywantababy6 TTC#1 Cycle ? UCL 28-29 CD44
SuziBhoy ttc#1 UCL ?? CD32
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 UCL 28 CD23
RTuff TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL 28-36 CD12
Antdamm ttc#2 UCL ?? CD10
Seanybosmummy ttc#2 cycle 12 UCL 30 CD9
Kay4Matt ttc#1 cycle11 UCL 25-35 CD4
Joy27 TTC#1 - On Sabbatical
Everysinglestar TTC#1 WAITING TIL JULY

BFPs :
Madmissy