Bit soppy I know, but my BF starts treatment next week- how can I be a good friend throughout this process, anything in particular that I could/should do?

[tiredemma]

Just want to be able to provide support without becoming a nuisance if that makes sense?

My sister is going through the same ATM all you can do is be there and listen to her .
Dont go on about babies all the time but dont avoid the subject iyswim.

If she is down in the dumps all you can do is be a god friend my sister had a bad day a few months ago after finding out her BF was PG I left her a bottle of wine and bubble bath on the doorstep just to let her know I was thinking of her

Also my sister has irrational rants and sometimes she says horrible things about other people getting PG she thought her BF had done it just to spite her she hadn't of course ,I think she just uses me as her sounding board because she knows she can't go out and rant at the world .

Sometimes it is just a help to have someone there who will listen and be at the end of the phone so they can have a cry or moan .

Hope that makes sense?

perfect sense.

thank you