PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE talk sense to me.......

[mummy2olivia]

Here are the facts....

Am on day 30 of my 1st cycle after 5 months on the pill due to an endo flare up. Normally my cycles are dead on 26 days and my LP is 10 days then start spotting, have loads of pain and cramps then lots of bleeding. I wasn't really expecting to ovulate this cycle due to having come off the pill but I did- on day 17, I definitely ovulated- it was really painful and had loads of EWCM and positive OPKs. Had loads of sex and waited 10 days. Did a digital test- BFN and waited for the spotting. It never came- another digital test came up BFN. I am 13 DPO now, have NEVER been here before and feel a bit in limbo- am obviously not pregnant but am wondering what has happened to my LP. I usually struggle to get to 10 DPO without loads of cramps- I have nothing. Boobs feel heavy but no spotting, no cramps- is this normal?

Hi M2O!

Sorry but I think you're going to be in limbo a bit longer to be sure. This really could go either way from what you've said but I really hope it's good news for you. Fingers crossed!

Why are you obviously not pregnant ?

Sounds hopeful to me, i didnt get a BFP last time till 15 DPO so you never know [hopefull]

Were the Lap & dye results good ?

Oh, forgot that as well- had lap and dye at 5DPO! could that delay things?

Don't think I am pg- just don't feel it and last test yesterday (12DPO) was definite BFN. surely would show by then? did you test every day up till you got BFP and that was at 15DPO?

Oh won't know results till feb/march but think they were ok thanks for remembering!

If you've bben on the pill it may be that your first couple or few cycles might be different to how they normally are. I was about a week late when I came off the mini-pill. good luck.

The lap may have delayed your period this time around.

Were you properly informed of the lap's findings?.

I'd also try not to think about being x many days post ovulation, its not an exact science and it is all too easy to get the date wrong. It is quite possible to have periods without actually ovulating.

I didn't test every day as i tested at 12 dpo and bfn then gave up hope and got a BFP at 15 dpo :D

Why on earth does it take so long to get the results in ?

Weird cycle update- period came while I was at the panto last night in a massive gush very annoying but as long as I know what my cycle is doing I dont mind!

Aww
Thanks for the update but as you say, at least you know now. Good luck with ttc!

Rubbish

Just what you don't need eh.

Hope you had a big drink on NYE to bring you better luck this year xx