I had a c section with my ds 2 years ago but I had to stay in the hospital due to an infection and as a result I am petrified of the place now! I really would like to have a homebirth but have been told by well-meaning friends that they wouldn't allow it "in case". Is this true - am I an automatic no-no? Also, I was induced last time but would prefer not to be next time - can I refuse to be induced? Obviously, the welfare of the baby is the priority but I had such horrible p/n/d after the birth of my first that I really want to avoid going down the same route.