Sorry for the whinging, I know I've posted before but I cannot make my mind up.
It's not straight forward because H will need a vasectomy reversal but it's more than that I think.
I know I don't feel done but the impact on the existing children would be financially, less attention (I am rubbish at jigsaws/playing etc) and plus I am a grumpy cow when pregnant and some times when not.
Can somebody just tell me not to have another one please.