How often do you talk about it ?

[KatieDD]

I'm getting told off at the moment because whilst buying a gift for cousins new baby I bought something (unisex and plain) for my baby which i'm not even pregnant with yet, to save on postage you understand, not cheap and I know I will want this item the min the test turns positive.

Anyway I would say I do probably mention it once a day in some form or another and simply cannot help it, it might be a passing comment about somebody else being pregnant and how jealous I am or it might be have you sorted x y or z to get me blooming pregnant yet ?

Howlong have you ben ttc?
I am definately think about it most of the day, might jokingly mention soething to DH a few times a week but i don't talk with anyone else about it as no one knows. Expect everyone on the conception threads on here if you count that then all the time i'm talking about it.

I refuse to talk about me ever getting pregnant as we have so many fertility problems between us (as you know from my whinging Katie ) it upsets me too much. We talk lots about TTC but never about an actual baby. I hate it when people who know we are TTC say "well when you get pregnant...blah blah blah..."

But I do think about it lots....

I talked about with DH more than he would have liked, but less than I would have liked. I didn't talk about it with anyone else, we kept it quiet. I did have counselling though (took us 3 years and 8 rounds of treatment to have DD).