10 DPO and negative!

[SallySummerPop]

First time tryer here. I know that for most couples it takes up to a year to concieve but I have really got too far caught up in my dream of getting a positive this month specifically. I have become obsessed and unfortunately it is looking very unlikely now. Anyone else? I promised myself I wouldn't do this.

I really can't be doing this month in, month out😔

Take a deep, deep breath. You said yourself you know it can take a while. Try to instill that mindset, it'll really help! And try not to test until your period is due. It saves a little of the "will it/won't it" rollercoaster that the journey of TTC is.

As tough as it is, you need to back off the testing. It's your first month... it could take awhile yet unfortunately but you'll drive yourself stir crazy testing this soon into.your journey without even having a missed period.

I know its very hard... so I'm saying this with kindness.