Looking for support. Will this be another chemical/miscarriage/ectopic

[RainbowBubbles22]

Hey,

Ive had all of the above over the years :( I have 1 DD and feel so lucky to have her. She’s my miracle.

just done a wondfo and got a positive. I’m going to do one with SMU for the next few days to compare. Then I will book for bloods.

would someone share this journey with me please? I’m lonely as only my husband knows and he’s very laid back whereas I’m an absolute stress head! (Although to be honest and kinder to myself, I actually have anxiety & depression due to all the trauma)

here’s my test from this morning (one taken with flash off and one with flash on). I’m on cycle day 23

I think right now that looks like a good line and definitely think you should enjoy today and the fact you got a positive test.

I know it’s hard, but when I did my DBT course, they touched on worrying and anxiety and the advice really stuck with me. It said that if you worry about something that hasn’t happened, you’re either suffering twice; once now, and once when it happens. Or you’re suffering unnecessarily if it never happens at all. I don’t know why, but it helped me be kinder to myself and try and focus on the here and now.

Best of luck to you, and congratulations!

That’s really helpful and totally makes sense.
I did another one this morning, not sure it’s any darker but it’s definitely there.

Looks like the line is progressing! How are you doing now?