JUNE 2025 Trying To Conceive Thread

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First cycle TTC since MC. 9DPO and I was convinced I saw a line this morning! Now I can't see it anymore though🤔the 2 pregnancies I've had I tested positive at 10DPO, so tomorrow will hopefully confirm either way!

@Thisisouryear2025 I'm soo sorry to hear how you're feeling hun..it's just horrible when you want something soo bad..Thanks for being soo kind and for listening! ❤
the same counts for you! stay strong sending lots of hugs xxx

Don’t Tell Me to Relax is doing a mini series on miscarriage and I found this episode interesting: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2c9WQM1SXKJmhtQ8ppdZ1o?si=73bd8IEeQmySUiSvScCOYQ

there’s another one about immunology that’s just come out but I’ve not listened yet. Might be interesting for anyone whose had a miscarriage/chemicals x

@Ec2808 And you lovely. It’s just the hardest thing isn’t it! All we can do is hang on to the hope it’s going to happen for us soon & our time is coming 🩷🩵 sending you love and hugs back and I’m always here to chat. I feel so lonely with this journey myself I like to chat to others who sadly understand xxx

Thank you il listen to this now on my sun bed xx

Sorry to hear @Ec2808fingers crossed for you

@Thisisouryear2025 I know I feel the same soo glad these threads exist so we can feel a little less lonely! ❤
@FlyHighSky72 thanks but don't think this is my month...

I think @Ec2808it would be beneficial for you not to test early now- those really faint lines could possibly be dodgy tests (unlikely as its frer but you never know right) and sometimes its easier to deal with the disappointment of not being pregnant than that something started and stopped- especially if you cant say for certain.

wouldnt count myself as it being a positive until i see a very strong line as its too heartbreaking otherwise with evaps, have u tried baby aspirin/coq10? X

@Thisisouryear2025that sucks about babies being everywhere holiday is meant to be a break from all this 😭😭😭

@Rancor@Muddysocks1hope 10dpo is the day for you! X

3dpo here and yet again this cycle I am getting nauseous from 1dpo. Not sure why this is happening. Never got nausea after ovulation before 😵‍💫

@Ec2808 I am really sorry and really hope it is not another chemical. It is cruel.

@Thisisouryear2025 I have read some people have symptoms with one pregnancy and not with another. I had def implantation symptoms with what turned out to be a mc in Feb: spotting about 12/13dpo and the weirdest prickliest sensation that it startled me about 10dpo. Felt nothing with the chemical other than I felt I should test.

Premom has backdated my ovulation day - do we think I’m still in with a shot this month??? (LH test really faint again just now so think I must have missed my peak as now CD18 and super low tests! I’ll keep testing until my period though, just in case)

i think so! let me ahow you my cycle last month x

so i had a high of 0.8 lh on april 21st and then it all of a sudden went lighter hitting my baseline, i was so stressed thinking i was having an anovulatory cycle as i had symptoms but no peak, then all of a sudden april 30th my symptoms geared back up and i hit peak 1.24 lh, i then ovulated may 1st and got AF 13 days later,

keep testing i’d say!

@Ec2808 Yeah these threads are so good to feel less alone! Keep strong and I agree with @peanutForever maybe next cycle of you have a next cycle just don’t test so early as from what I’ve read sperm will nearly always meet egg. And fertilisation is very common but a successful embryo is no where near as common and sometimes it better not to know xx

@FlyHighSky72 hey!! How are you doing? You were on a previous thread I was on. I never get a very strong peak although it’s strong enough to know it’s my peak because I always peak at night / early hours and I never do OPKs at that time so it’s highly likely you’ve missed it tbh. I read it’s common that it happens late at night or through the night x

@ForGiddyDreamer thank you that’s helpful!! I’ve written this month off now, I just don’t think it’s the month. I honestly don’t even feel an urge to test as I don’t feel anything. It’s funny though as the symptoms I’ve had with both chemicals was that they were very very strong and from about 11dpo. The girls that have had successful pregnancies I know of lately have either had no symptoms or a lot less xx

@peanutForever I know right! On my first day I just got so emotional I couldn’t handle it x

@megan345thanks for your cycle? Sorry, do you think I should keep testing as you think my peak is still to come or you mean just to check I don’t ovulate super late!?

Also i just wanted to ask any ladies who have had immediate chemicals please also make sure your hcg levels have gone back down to zero

i had a chemical at 5weeks back in 2022 (was not trying and had an 8month old) but it took 9 weeks for my period to return as my hcg levels didnt go back down and i was getting these faint lines on test (which i can imagine if i was trying i would have believed was a new pregnancy for ages) but was under the care of epu/blood tests & defo didnt want to try for another then..so please know they can affect the next cycle depending on how quick your body goes back to normal!

also just want to put some hope out there with the ladies who are having chemicals- i was also you 5 years ago desperate for a baby having had chemicals and with the help of aspirin/prog i have a lovely DS who is now 4, its feel really horrendous atm, -all the anxiety and the worry even when you do get a positive but know that it will get better once your time comes, its worth the wait and im spreading so much baby dust to you all, we are all so strong and its rubbish that our species are not the best reproducers, its just our biology preventing heartbreak for us x

i think keep testing to see if a peak will arise xxx

@FlyHighSky72honestly think youve missed it, id try BD for rhe next few days and leave it at that or it will stress you out xx

@Thisisouryear2025yes I remember you too - I wish I’d done another test in the middle of the day. By the time I did one at 10.30pm at night I had drunk loads of water so I reckon I peaked earlier in the day (midday or afternoon) and then drunk so much I diluted my urine too much

Thanks @peanutForeverand @megan345- I’ll keep testing and we can run a sweepstake to see who’s right 😂😂😂 - I just think I’d be surprised if my LH is so low today (CD18) and then still goes up! I’m testing 3 times a day atm!!

@FlyHighSky72 I think keep testing, but don't panic if you don't see a rise (which I know is hard not to!) If you didn't test throughout the day, its quite easy to miss the peak. Are you testing BBT too? That's also a good indicator of when you ovulate. Maybe start temping next cycle, I find this easier to do, and then if you think you have missed your peak you have the temps to fall back on to know when you ovulated.

@FlyHighSky72have you had an ewcm? X