JUNE 2025 Trying To Conceive Thread

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@Plumchumm I would take one tomorrow morning and compare it to your 10DPO as hcg doubles every 2-3 days usually. So you might not see much progression with these two only being a day apart.
fingers crossed for you!🤞🏼 x

@Plumchumm agree with above that you're best to test again tomorrow. Testing every 2 days should show progression better. Fingers crossed for you 🤞

Will do thanks ladies x

@Ec2808i definitely see that.

@Plumchummas others have said don’t worry about the progression a day apart. Hopefully if you do one this morning it should be darker

Anyone on here got a BFP with no implantation symptoms at all? I have had symptoms of implantation in 3 out of 4 pregnancies, being cramps and implantation spotting, and headaches and a strange belly. I am 9dpo today and have absolutely no symptoms so totally feel like it’s pointless me even thinking I’m in with a shot.

This is exactly how I am feeling at 8dpo! I know I'm out. My 2 miscarriages this year I felt some twinges which I put down to implantation. I also had alot of CM! And I have nothing. 😒

@Plumchummthis looks stronger to me! But yes like the others said take another today x

@ChaE05 It’s so annoying isn’t it. I guess we need to accept period is coming and if it doesn’t then fab surprise but at least we aren’t holding out hope. I don’t even feel like I’m going to come on right now which for me just means my cycle is being normal and my pms will come a day or two before AF as it normally does! It’s so annoying!

never @Thisisouryear2025i always feel like i know when im implanting or looking back i know defo had symptoms and pushed them off thinking pms, i think we have a natural instinct, i also used to have a lot of cm whenever i got a positive

@peanutForever same. I just knew with my others, like I know some people say they had no symptoms but deep down I am like there would have been something surely. Argh onto cycle 7 then 😭

@peanutForeveryou get CM before a positive too?? I do! Like really obvious, always feeling like maybe Af had appareared! It just makes me feel gutted that I know so early on I'm already out. Then it's such a drag until AF arrives x

@ChaE05 Yep, I’m not due on until Wednesday & now I’m like it feels like forever. Just want to try again with a fresh chance. I never got much CM at all with my other pregnancies, I got watery discharge with one but my main signs were funny belly and really gassy, spotting, cramps and headache. And I have zero of these. Urgh it’s annoyed me today. By 9dpo I’d expect to feel something by now

@FlyHighSky72 thank you..

Thanks everybody but took one this morning and it looks the same as yesterday's before it dried with the very visble line..probably just another chemical 😢

@Thisisouryear2025I'm due Wed too! So we will be starting a new cycle together. I start everyone with excitement and positivity. I hate when I get to about 7dpo and I think hmmm I know it's not happened. Symptom spotting Is the worst x

@ChaE05 Ah cycle buddies that’s lovely!! Mine are on the shorter side though. I normally ovulate from
day 9-12 and have a 14 day LP. I am so the same though, by now I would expect to have felt something different. Then it’s the sadness and dread of more disappointment. How many cycles in are you? X

@Ec2808 Oh I’m sorry. 😔 don’t give up just yet as you are still so early x

@Thisisouryear2025 I know but the line should be increasing..don't know what's wrong with my body 😢

@Ec2808oh hun :( I've been there...looking at my line and not seeing any change. It IS still early however I knew in my heart what mine was even though everyone around me was telling me it will be fine etc etc. So if this is another chemical I'm so sorry and it's so bloody shit. We are here for you. But everything crossed for you it isn't x sending love x

@Thisisouryear2025this is cycle 7 right now. Going into 8. Had a miscarriage in Feb and then a chemical March. You've been trying since Jan is that right? Sorry, you said other pregnancies, do you have children?
My cycles are longer and usually ovulate CD19/20. My luteal phase last month was 12 days. Longest its been as I'm still breastfeeding and it's been getting longer each month with supplements.
Do you plan to take a test or just wait for Af? I've strictly told myself I will only test day before AF due x

@Ec2808 Is that the second chemical? Honestly, if that is what it is, your body is getting rid of something that has potential problems and is protecting itself. That’s the most common cause for a chemical. And they are so so common which is why they say we shouldn’t test early as so many women have them. Give yourself another day or two and if really no progression then you are probably right. My friend had 2 chemicals and a MMC and she’s now about to give birth and she conceived a sticky bean on her own the month after her last chemical. Stay strong x

9DPO and BFN.. but I didn’t get a Bfp until 10DPO the only time I’ve ever have one before so not losing hope yet.. still getting the very slight shadows on some but not all which is definitely just the tests I think

@ChaE05 @Thisisouryear2025
it's heartbreaking just soo sad right now..everyone around me right now is pregnant sister in law friends..and don't understand why it's not working for us 😔
this would be the second or third chemical because pretty certain had one last month as well just prefer to ignore it...
it's causing stress on my couple also because i'm soo anxious once I get a faint line...don't know what to do just soo sad right now 😭

@ChaE05 Ah ok so we have been trying for a similar amount of time! That’s horrible about your losses I’m sorry 😔 but it is the body’s way of getting rid of an embryo with issues and I guess we just have to thank our bodies for doing what it’s meant to do. I had a chemical in August last year, we weren’t trying at that point. Life got stressful so we decided to try from Jan so this is cycle 6 now. Sadly I have no children. I got pregnant accidentally when I was 18 and 21 after my mum died, I was not in a position to have those babies so I had to have a termination. I had a chemical in March 22, I was with someone else back then, and it really wasn’t right for me so I left. I’ve been with my partner for 2.5 years now and we are happy and desperate for kids now. Ah breast feeding can mess with cycles for sure. How old is your little one? I will just wait for AF now, I know I’m out so just have to keep on keeping on. X

Fingers crossed there is a BFP waiting for you!!

@Ec2808 I’m so so sorry. All I can say is that I totally feel your pain. All my friends are pregnant or about to give birth, or are about to try for a second or just have babies and it’s utterly heartbreaking for me too. Why is it taking so long?! I think if you’ve had a loss before you are naturally going to be more anxious and that’s just a product of losses. It’s very sad and cruel. It will happen though…. It really will. The right one will come along and it will stick. I came to Cyprus last Sunday and didn’t realise that every woman in this hotel would have a baby or be pregnant or both, I sit here feeling so sad and cried on my first day as it just broke my heart to see x