2 possible baby fathers

[staceey121]

hi everyone, I am currently 15 weeks and 4 days pregnant

I took a pregnancy test on 4th of febuary came back negative

on the 9th of febuary I found out I was pregnant by taking a clear blue week indicator and it coming back 1-2 weeks since conception and took another one on the 11th and came back 2-3 weeks since conception

I had a emergency scan on the 14th if febuaryas they thought I was having a ectopic pregnancy
the scan came back fine and there was a empty gs sac measuring 4 weeks 5 days which she said is roughly 2 weeks 5 days since I concieved also the sonographer said it looked like a very very early sac
me and my patneter broke up around Christmas time and I ended up sleeping with someone on the 7th of january! where he did not ejaculate inside of me
I asked the sonographer if it was possible it could be his and she said no as the sac would be alot bigger
and it was looking like I concieved roughly the end of January
I got back with my parnter on the 20th of january
I also had a period on the 12th of january which started of brown light and red blood but did get heavier and was bright red

I had to go back for another scan on the 28th of febuary which there was a baby there measuring 5 weeks 5 days gestation I asked the sonographer again could i have concidved on the 7th and she said no at the moment the fetus is looking like a grain of rice if I was further along it would be looking more like a baby

I had my 12 week dating scan on 8/04/2025
and was measuring 12 weeks 4 days pregnant when I have used the conception calculator its coming back I concieved roughly around the 24th of january
I am so so scared I could have concieved on the 7th of january It's really making my mental health go down hill 😢 please someone give me some advice

You need a DNA test to be sure here, it’s far too close for anybody to be able to call it.

I would be pretty reassured that it is your partner's baby based on what you have said.

It sounds to me like it's your partners too, please don't panic or worry. Relax and try to enjoy pregnancy.

If I’ve read correctly, the pregnancy tests and scams have all come back saying likely conception around 24th Jan onwards? And you had a period (with bright red blood) around 2 weeks before that. If it was me, I would be assuming that it was conceived around the 24th;, maybe there will be other indicators later on in the pregnancy? Try not to worry about it. If it is an issue later on, you can always address it then.

From everything you’ve said it sounds like it is your partners

You had a period after you slept with the other man, and you've had a few scans which are very accurate at that stage. The dates eg 12 weeks pregnant, start from the date of your last period, which is usually 2 weeks before conception. It really sounds like it's your partners.

I'd have an abortion in your situation to avoid the heart ache for everyone. Then re try in better circumstances

If everything you've said is 100% correct, the baby can only be your partners.

yeah I had my 12 week scan on the 08/02/25 and was measuring 12 weeks and 4 days
I worked it out as Conception being around the 24th of jan roughly

Defo your partners baby, without a doubt.

Take a breath, we all go through such things in some way or other.

Bullet dodged for sure and congrats to you and your partner

If you had sex with the other guy as a one off on 7th Jan, and your period started on 12th Jan, then it can't be his baby. Those dates would also make sense that you ovulated & conceived around the 24th Jan with your partner.

Personally I'd tell my partner about this if I were you and agree to have a dna test once the baby arrives just to be 1000% sure and up front with him, but it's your decision.

@Eenameenadeeka yeah I was scared that I mistaken my period for Inplantation bleeding tho 😕

I think it's highly likely to be your partner's.

@Stoufer yeah I was scared that I had mistaken my period and was actually inplantation bleeding but it was bright red blood after 2 days with small clots (sorry to go into detail)
I have asked a few people with the same due date as me when they roughly concieved and all said 20th to 24th of jan some even a little later

its defo your partners! if you look up conception you will see the dates are way too far apart and to reassure you sperm only live upto 5 days inside you (the best of conditions) and if he did not ejaculate inside you then no way its the other guys!

please take care of your mental health OP everyone here is reassuring you of conception dates and the sonographer too etc so take it as a sign, relax and enjoy raising your bundle of joy together!

@Fluffypotatoe123987thats an extreme thing to do and horrendous advice, OP clearly wants their child.