Frozen transfer tomorrow

[Sunniehols]

FET booked in for tomorrow and I'm having doubts. Anyone else ever felt like this?

My age (44) is the main issue. I'm fairly healthy now but the reality of aging and the health issues that come with age is making me doubt my choices. We have a happy healthy 10 year old that we know we are so blessed with. I worry about everything ! I have health anxiety too so pregnancy complications are also a big worry. I had mild pre-eclampsia at 39 weeks and was induced, wasn't great. Two losses 2-3 years ago that ended up needing more procedures, all quite traumatic. I'm in such a better place now mentally, I worry I'm making a bad decision!

Only you can make the decision about what is right or wrong for you. Good luck today with whatever you decide.

I'm sorry you feel this way. It's very nerve wracking to potentially bring new life into the family and there Is always going to be what ifs. You just have to decide on the what ifs you can live with. I hope all went well today with whatever you decided.

Hi. I had my 6th FET today and I am 41, soon to be 42. I'm terrified of birth should it ever happen, but im strong and I know what ever happens I can do it. Did you go ahead?

I never went ahead 😔 my trauma is just too deep. Very difficult decision to make today, it's the end of the road for us. We will stay a family of three.

Good luck with everything @AnonS x

@Sunniehols Really sorry to hear that. Only you know what is best for you x