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9dpo anyone else ??

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ceiow97 · 13/04/2025 18:15

Hey all. Im 9dpo. Got a bfn today :( aware it’s super early but couldn’t resist, also absolutely exhausted today !! Anyone else??

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Amilliondreamsisallitagonnatake · 13/04/2025 18:36

I’m 10dpo and really trying hard not to test. I’m so tempted to do one tomorrow but want to wait until 12/13 dpo. Remember the later you do one the more accurate it is and I’m trying not to throw money away testing so often

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ceiow97 · 13/04/2025 19:55

Completely get you! It’s just sooo difficult D: wish there was a simpler easy way on the mental toll of the tww

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Amilliondreamsisallitagonnatake · 13/04/2025 20:13

ceiow97 · 13/04/2025 19:55

Completely get you! It’s just sooo difficult D: wish there was a simpler easy way on the mental toll of the tww

It is such a mental toll I totally get it. And this is only my first cycle! Which cycle is it for you?

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ceiow97 · 13/04/2025 20:20

Technically my 2nd as we just missed ovulation day when we agreed to start trying, but we still tried anyway lol but this the first official one. We tried 3 years ago and had bfp first try but ended up in a MC a few weeks later so im super nervous but also excited! X

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AgnesTTC · 13/04/2025 21:25

17 dpo. Took all the tests… so confused. Seams higher than 10, but lower than 25. Do you guys think it’s chemical?

9dpo anyone else ??
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ceiow97 · 13/04/2025 21:34

Could it be faulty tests? X

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AgnesTTC · 14/04/2025 20:33

hey guys, it was a chemical after all. Another one…
Hope it goes better for you! I’ll keep my fingers crossed.
I think we will try IVF.

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ceiow97 · 14/04/2025 20:37

So sorry to hear that :( Hope you’re okay. I tested again this morning and had another BFN so not holding up much hope :(

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AgnesTTC · 14/04/2025 20:46

@ceiow97
thank you and I’m sorry it’s not going well for you.
I honestly hate the wait and not knowing what is happening. It feels like it’s easier to be pragmatic about another chemical then to obsess if it’s there or not.
Are you on Letrozol?
I know that it’s not saying much as this is my 3 chemical in 6 months, but we do seam to get to BFP (it keeps aborting at 5weeks) I’m 41 and with PCOS so we will go the IVF as it might just be chromosomal abnormalities, but I would still advocate that Letrozol is making sure I really do ovulate.

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ceiow97 · 14/04/2025 20:50

I also have PCOS! I did get a BFP 2 years ago but lost it at 8 weeks as MMC. This is our first month of trying again as taken me that long to process. Im also a type one diabetic so its all fun and games lol x

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AgnesTTC · 14/04/2025 23:30

@ceiow97 😟 type 1 diabetes! I know PCOS is hard, especially with trying to conceive but type 1! Do you have the CGM? And if yes did it make your life easier?
Are you being looked after by a fertility clinic?

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