I have done a lot of scrolling, the last 4 days. And seen a few of the same things being said. I'm 35 nearly 36, had a child 10 years ago. All last year I was having 3 day light periods. This year they have lasted longer, I took a hpt negative. Spotted on 31st October light pink all my periods start this was few hours later bright red, still bleeding now 3rd November. Would love a second child iv had miss carriages in the past. Feeling like I'm only meant to have the one. I'm not with my daughters dad any longer so I'm not trying actively every month, just finding it a bit sad hearing stories about as you get older its harder and then premenepasol it all sounds doom and gloom