sex, or rather should I call it attempted insemination (as that's what it feels like) - oh the joys, or lack of joys of sex. orgasms just not on the cards these days. beginning to wonder if this is why i'm not getting pregnant. what do you think??? really need to spice it up a bit. someone recommended women's erotic fiction to me the other day. i'm going on to amazon now to buy a copy.