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TTC after loss part 5

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Ella31 · 04/08/2024 18:18

Just continuing our old thread. I've added anyone who has asked to stay on here. As always, anyone who is trying after a loss is welcome to join and those who have been lucky since are welcome to encourage those who are still waiting for their rainbow (if you want to stay of course )

Also for the next thread, I'm going to let someone else take over creating the new one if people don't mind. I've a lot on at the moment with tests and I'm back to work in the next few weeks after my bereavement leave with my boys. So if anyone would like to take the mantle, feel free.

Im 2dpo today and have another ultrasound on Wednesday to see if follicle has burst followed by pdg blood test.

@Onthedouble123
@DonnaWhat
@moosey89
@Bellebg
@Lovedatforme
@Ncl31
@PearlCat
@LucyCL
@CadoAvo
@ThelastRolo20
@Figtree11

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Ella31 · 13/08/2024 09:27

11dpo ladies is this line strong enough. It was 2 hours after I peed as well.

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DonnaWhat · 13/08/2024 09:41

@Ella31 definitely more prominent. I won't test again til Thursday (or atleast try) scared a digital will say no at the min.

I can't quite get my head round it. Thankyou ladies 🥰

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 10:05

@DonnaWhat congratulations!!
@Ella31 that line is much clearer now, hopefully you can relax a little now

Ella31 · 13/08/2024 10:25

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 10:05

@DonnaWhat congratulations!!
@Ella31 that line is much clearer now, hopefully you can relax a little now

Is it ok for 11dpo though. Af would be due today

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CadoAvo · 13/08/2024 10:37

@DonnaWhat I see it!! Congratulations!!

All you pregnant mamas send some of your good luck to us 🥰

CadoAvo · 13/08/2024 10:47

Ella31 · 13/08/2024 09:27

11dpo ladies is this line strong enough. It was 2 hours after I peed as well.

It looks great! 🤞🏼

MisssMarion · 13/08/2024 10:48

What a month ladies!

@DonnaWhat we were all so hopeful after your possible implantation spotting, I got everything crossed it's happening for you!

@Ella31 I think it's a good line, and I'm not sure if the colour really tells a lot? See attached mine at 15 or 16 dpo, it's not much darker. It worried me a bit then as I thought it would be darker since it was after my period was due, but then I took a CB digital this morning at 21 dpo (first one) and I got 3+! So I don't trust line darkness anymore... Fingers crossed it's a sticky bean!

Btw there's a thread for pregnancy after loss for those who want to join.

For those still waiting for their BFP, this thread seems to be bringing good luck (or at least good support and advice)... I'm sending baby dust to all (including myself ☺️).

MisssMarion · 13/08/2024 10:49

With the pic this time

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Ella31 · 13/08/2024 10:51

MisssMarion · 13/08/2024 10:48

What a month ladies!

@DonnaWhat we were all so hopeful after your possible implantation spotting, I got everything crossed it's happening for you!

@Ella31 I think it's a good line, and I'm not sure if the colour really tells a lot? See attached mine at 15 or 16 dpo, it's not much darker. It worried me a bit then as I thought it would be darker since it was after my period was due, but then I took a CB digital this morning at 21 dpo (first one) and I got 3+! So I don't trust line darkness anymore... Fingers crossed it's a sticky bean!

Btw there's a thread for pregnancy after loss for those who want to join.

For those still waiting for their BFP, this thread seems to be bringing good luck (or at least good support and advice)... I'm sending baby dust to all (including myself ☺️).

Can you link me the thread
Oh fab, 3 weeks on the indicator is amazing.

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Figtree11 · 13/08/2024 10:56

CadoAvo · 13/08/2024 10:37

@DonnaWhat I see it!! Congratulations!!

All you pregnant mamas send some of your good luck to us 🥰

Yes please do send the good luck this way

MisssMarion · 13/08/2024 11:12

@Ella31 I’m on this one but there might be others? It would be nice to all be on the same one. Is anybody else on a different one?

www.mumsnet.com/talk/pregnancy/5071488-pregnancy-after-loss-part-2?page=1

ToeBeans24 · 13/08/2024 11:21

@Ella31 i didn’t get a bfp at 11dpo at all so this is v positive ! My First bfp was at 15dpo I think and only dark on a FRER. On a standard supermarket test you could barely see it.

Completely get the anxiety. I did tests every 2 days for almost 3 weeks. The anxiety never goes but you do learn to sit with it somehow. But do whatever works for you. People that hadn’t experienced lost thought I was crazy for buying and taking so many tests and having early scans.

but it helped me. I promise you can do this. We are all with you xx

Ella31 · 13/08/2024 11:23

ToeBeans24 · 13/08/2024 11:21

@Ella31 i didn’t get a bfp at 11dpo at all so this is v positive ! My First bfp was at 15dpo I think and only dark on a FRER. On a standard supermarket test you could barely see it.

Completely get the anxiety. I did tests every 2 days for almost 3 weeks. The anxiety never goes but you do learn to sit with it somehow. But do whatever works for you. People that hadn’t experienced lost thought I was crazy for buying and taking so many tests and having early scans.

but it helped me. I promise you can do this. We are all with you xx

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Thanks so much @ToeBeans24 it's mad isn't it. If we hadn't lost our babies, we'd be none the wiser

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Ella31 · 13/08/2024 11:24

MisssMarion · 13/08/2024 11:12

@Ella31 I’m on this one but there might be others? It would be nice to all be on the same one. Is anybody else on a different one?

www.mumsnet.com/talk/pregnancy/5071488-pregnancy-after-loss-part-2?page=1

Just joined, thanks a mil

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ToeBeans24 · 13/08/2024 12:15

I know @Ella31 i get frustrated / envious often that I don’t have a chance of a worry free pregnancy and be ignorant to the fact of all the risks etc. But some how you just get through. I’m now 20w. Still anxious but each day it gets a small bit better. Xx

Ella31 · 13/08/2024 12:20

ToeBeans24 · 13/08/2024 12:15

I know @Ella31 i get frustrated / envious often that I don’t have a chance of a worry free pregnancy and be ignorant to the fact of all the risks etc. But some how you just get through. I’m now 20w. Still anxious but each day it gets a small bit better. Xx

20 weeks that's fantastic 🥹🥰🥰 so happy for you

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DonnaWhat · 13/08/2024 12:27

@ToeBeans24 20 weeks?!? Where's that time gone! Xx

moosey89 · 13/08/2024 13:31

I took a few days off because I was struggling and blimey what happened, did someone put something in the water?? Huge congratulations to everyone getting BFPs, 🤞 they are all sticky little beans this time around. Please share the luck, I'm just into my fertile window 🤣

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 14:05

@MisssMarion I'm on one BFP after recent loss but it's moved onto a what's app chat which is nice. Let me know if you want to join x

DonnaWhat · 13/08/2024 14:19

moosey89 · 13/08/2024 13:31

I took a few days off because I was struggling and blimey what happened, did someone put something in the water?? Huge congratulations to everyone getting BFPs, 🤞 they are all sticky little beans this time around. Please share the luck, I'm just into my fertile window 🤣

Sending all the baby dust in the world to you xx

Lovedatforme · 13/08/2024 14:32

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 14:05

@MisssMarion I'm on one BFP after recent loss but it's moved onto a what's app chat which is nice. Let me know if you want to join x

Could I be added to this one please?

@Ella31 That line looks perfect, mine looked the same as that ❤

Figtree11 · 13/08/2024 14:43

I really am so happy for all of you with the BFPs. You all deserve it
Feeling a bit sorry for myself though 😔

ThelastRolo20 · 13/08/2024 14:48

jellyfish2 · 13/08/2024 14:05

@MisssMarion I'm on one BFP after recent loss but it's moved onto a what's app chat which is nice. Let me know if you want to join x

Could I join @jellyfish2 x

ThelastRolo20 · 13/08/2024 14:49

Figtree11 · 13/08/2024 14:43

I really am so happy for all of you with the BFPs. You all deserve it
Feeling a bit sorry for myself though 😔

I'm sorry @Figtree11 I understand that feeling. After my second miscarriage I had what seemed like a whole train of friends tell me they were pregnant. It was like a punch to the gut each time, but your time will come- you're still recovering xx

moosey89 · 13/08/2024 15:41

@Figtree11 I completely understand how you feel. Big hugs xx