Anyone else TTC a third?

[Springbaby2023]

As the title says, anyone else TTC a third? Been agonising over it for a while but think we are ready to go for it. Although at the same time keep getting petrified that I might get pregnant and suddenly regret it.

Two DC aged 1 and 4, both took between 12-14 months to conceive, with a few chemicals along the way. So not expecting things to happen imminently.

We are also TTC our third. Currently have 2yo and 4mo. 1st was a happy suprise and 2nd took 7months with two chemicals.
This will be cycle 2!
Hopefully this will be our month.
Currently CD 9

I wouldn't say 'trying' but were definitely not 'trying not to'

Have a five year old and a 4 month old. Am currently 9dpo ... no idea what I'm doing really and if it's a terrible idea, the thought is definitely terrifying and at times the thought of three seems ridiculous BUT I also can't stop obsessing about it!!

@mumtobbk I know how you feel, I’ve been obsessing over it since I had my second. He’s now 14 months and it’s not gone away so I think it’s right for us. We’re definitely more in the definitely not trying not to phase, I don’t want to start properly trying and getting obsessed with OPKs etc like I did with my others (yet)

@Springbaby2023 that sounds like it's been long enough for you to know what you really want as you've had good time to really think about it! Will you test?

It happened .... not really planned but now im terrified

@mumtobbk Wow congratulations!! I can imagine how you feel but I’m sure the shock will wear off and you’ll get excited. We tried for the first time last month and yet I am still constantly agonising over whether it’s the right thing to do or not. A third seems such a big decision for some reason. Hope you’re feeling ok.

Thankyou @Springbaby2023 yes indeed it is a big decision.. what are the main things that are holding you back?