am shitting myself a bit

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so i use the patch form of contraception,have been a bit mixed up with my patches the last couple of weeks....so all this week ive been sick...peein more than usual, horrid heartburn and i cant effin sleep.....af HAS come but its not a true period is it...could i be pregnant or am i just making a mountain out of a mole hill

anyone????

i would do a test to know either way

would it test pos or neg even with AF???

should i stop using the patch and use other contraception in the time being???? like until (if) i get a true period???

id stick with condoms or just hold off sex until i was sure if you think you didnt really have a proper af possible implantation bleed then if you were pregnant you should be far enough gone for a test to show either way you shold try to work out your dates

thanks....i will test tomorrow...if it shows neg i will hold off sex and wait to get a true AF then start a fresh.....i have been screaming at dp to get the snip today....."what the feck has brought this on????"

could you get an implanon arm bar in that way you could be more sure defo kick dp to the doctors for the snip if you really dont want anymore los

no i seriosly dont want to have any more children...and i know im only 23 but when you know, you just know.....i love the 2 i have, ive just got back into education and want to go to uni...i know it sounds selfish but its just the way it is

its not at all selfish it would be worse if you were having[or getting rid of] kids you dont want will your dp not get a snip?

ive told him there is no fucking way i am getting sterilised...i have had three d&cs and give birth twice...i have been messed around with enough, so its down to him to get it done...he has told me he will go to docs about it on monday x....AF is really heavy so i should be fine right?????