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Eatsleepbakerepeat · 29/06/2024 18:02

So we started trying for #2 in December and have had 4 miscarriages since, all early 3 chemicals and 1 at around 6 weeks
We took this month off to do some tests but ya know things happen and here we are 🙈🙈

I was due on today and tested and got a bfp, 11dpo
We spoke with a fertility specialist earlier in the week who said all our tests were normal and recommended some further testing and prescribed me some progesterone to take from 3dpo
So 2 questions
1 is this test too faint for 11dpo, I know as much as I'd like someone to say if this was going to be a viable pregnancy or not you can't but just wanted an opinion on the darkness

  1. If I haven't started bleeding by Monday when the progesterone arrives, should I start it?
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VLT36 · 29/06/2024 18:43

No compared to my 11 DPO this is a great line! Congratulations!!!! Fingers crossed for a healthy nine months xx

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 29/06/2024 18:53

VLT36 · 29/06/2024 18:43

No compared to my 11 DPO this is a great line! Congratulations!!!! Fingers crossed for a healthy nine months xx

I so hope so
After 4 losses I darent get excited
If I haven't started bleeding by Monday I will start thr progesterone as soon as it arrives
I ovulated on 17th June cd 16 so today is 11dpo right 🫣🙈😂 I keep checking my maths out of absolute fear

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KittyFantastica · 30/06/2024 12:06

Hello, sorry for your losses. I've had a chemical (my first ever pregnancy :() and a MMC at 10 weeks this year. I just had another positive test early this month and this is what my first three tests looked like. Yours looks excellent for 11DPO. I didn't even get a positive until 11DPO with my first two and they were slow starters. I think this is a good start for you 🤞

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Decaffe · 30/06/2024 12:14

This is my 11dpo! Yours looks great.

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Eatsleepbakerepeat · 30/06/2024 15:18

I'm just terrified after my losses
This is my yesterday compared to today
I'm just terrified it's going to end the same way, I feel like I've had some cramping today but I have no symptoms at app pregnancy wise. It all just seems too good to be true :(

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KittyFantastica · 30/06/2024 19:45

I totally understand the fear @Eatsleepbakerepeat, but at the end of the day, as hard as it is, progression on tests doesn't mean much. It drove me mad in my second pregnancy after my chemical. I must have tested 70 times, my lines got slightly stronger each day, so I knew it wasn't a chemical. I got dye stealers, a 3+ on digitals, everything. It didn't stop the MMC from happening because, as harsh and sad as it is, it's not preventable if something is going to go wrong in the end.

This time, I've no symptoms again, so I'm convinced it will be bad news, but I only used up whatever tests I had and then gave up with them. They weren't telling me anything beyond that it's not a chemical.

Your progression looks brilliant from yesterday to today, so I'd be optimistic in your shoes :). I hope it all goes well for you!

Eatsleepbakerepeat · 30/06/2024 19:55

KittyFantastica · 30/06/2024 19:45

I totally understand the fear @Eatsleepbakerepeat, but at the end of the day, as hard as it is, progression on tests doesn't mean much. It drove me mad in my second pregnancy after my chemical. I must have tested 70 times, my lines got slightly stronger each day, so I knew it wasn't a chemical. I got dye stealers, a 3+ on digitals, everything. It didn't stop the MMC from happening because, as harsh and sad as it is, it's not preventable if something is going to go wrong in the end.

This time, I've no symptoms again, so I'm convinced it will be bad news, but I only used up whatever tests I had and then gave up with them. They weren't telling me anything beyond that it's not a chemical.

Your progression looks brilliant from yesterday to today, so I'd be optimistic in your shoes :). I hope it all goes well for you!

I'm so sorry to hear about your losses :( it's a horrible thing to be able to understand

After our chemical last month we said we'd never trust tests again, cos although slow, we did have a really good increase

I'll try and relax and see where things take us
Start the progesterone tomorrow and pray for the best
Wishing you all the best too 💕💕

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