BFN rant

[Emilyx00]

Hi,

Got another BFN today on a clear blue ultra early. I think I’m around 10dpo but not 100% sure. Haven’t DTD loads due to partners shifts so definitely could have missed it but just feeling fed up. My breasts are sore, and I’m getting cramps on and off so I feel like my body is teasing me. Just frustrating as I so badly want this and it’s just getting further and further away.

Anyone else in this position?

Hell yeah girly, I know a few of us who are. Bodies taunting us with symptoms when it’s only another bfn we see. I feel for you. Sending love! X

@Duckgirl hey, it’s horrible isn’t it? How many DPO are you? X

Hi @Emilyx00 - Same here I am around 10/11dpo and had a bfn yesterday and today on an early test. I felt nauseous today and had some blood in my cm with some cramps. I tend to have longer cycles and period due over the weekend. Trying to not overthink but it's hard and feel really emotional about it all. Ive read once implantation happens it can take a couple of days to build up enough hcg so we aren't out yet🤞💫

@Emilyx00 10/11 but I refuse to test now. I just wait for af. I can’t handle another bfn test. It’s too painful. X

I'm around 9/10 dpo bfn this morning, i feel out. Even though I know logicaly implantation happens in 84% of women between 8-10 dpo, then aprox 2 days to produce enough hcg to test positive on a test.
I still can help feel gutted.

Currently 12dpo, due for AF in 3 days. Bfn on 9 and 10dp, so don’t have too much hope, but AF still not arrived so it’s incredibly frustrating. Have told myself not to test unless I’m late now as it’s hard to see a negative when it’s something I so desperately want, and when my body is giving me weird symptoms! Had some blood in my cm which isn’t something I normally get before I’m due, and also had some sporadic cramping which again isn’t normal for my PMS. All very bizarre and think my body loves to torture me. Praying I’m not out but having a feeling there’ll be at least one more TWW in my future 😪

Seems like we’re all due at similar times! My period is due tomorrow. Got back pains and cramps so I think it will come. Still holding onto hope that it won’t!!

Bfn again this am and pm. It's not looking great. I've also been in a ferral mood today so af might be coming soon :(

Feeling the same. Bfn this morning at 11dpo, and I seem to have a short luteal phase so my period has generally arrived by now. Month 6 of trying, this feels awful.

As much as it awful to know you are all feeling this way it’s comforting to know I’m not alone. AF due tomorrow. Had a ton of symptoms I don’t usually have and none of those I usually would do. It’s so frustrating. Love to you all

Still no sign of AF but holding off on testing. Having the most bizarre morning, woke up and felt immediately a weird pain (sharp stabbing down my spine, what felt like maybe acid reflux on the front too), thought it was just intense hunger as my appetite has been off and had dodgy stomach last night, had something to quickly eat and immediately threw it up. Had a small drink and tried again and was better but still had nausea, even now. never had this for PMS, but I also think I have covid right now too, unsure if that’s ever been a covid symptom, but god my body is going through it! Wishing everyone a less confusing time than what I’m going through right now 😂 hope we all get our bfp’s soon xx

I feel like it’s so unfair our bodies play these tricks! It’s my due date next week from my MC and I thought id be pregnant by now. Had a month off trying last month too. Got my fingers crossed for us all!

@Emilyx00 sorry to hear about the mc :( that must be making this 2ww even harder for you with that thought.
I also had a mc years ago at 9 weeks.
Bfn again this am, and that was my last frer. Now I'm just going to wait, if no AF by Wednesday I'll buy another test.