TTC after second trimester loss

[SarahA24]

I gave birth to our precious baby boy last week but was only 18 weeks pregnant 💔
He was our second baby and our only embryo from the IVF cycle that gave him to us.
I’ve read you’re more fertile in the first 6 months after a miscarriage gives us hope that we might be able to conceive on our own as we have unexplained infertility.

has anyone else recently experienced second trimester loss and was able to get pregnant again soon after?

how long did you wait?

did anyone track cycles or just get straight back to sex as soon as?

I know I won’t replace my precious boy but I know that for me I want and need to get pregnant, I’m 38 but feel that time is not on our side, especially with everything we’ve been through to have our daughter (also ivf, third attempt) and then our precious son 💔

@SarahA24 im so sorry for your loss. I lost my beautiful daughter at 16 weeks last year. I was 36 when we lost her. I decided to take a year out to heal physically and mentally, and to have the post mortum report back. I fell pregnant out first month trying again, but sadly I have just lost that pregnancy at 12 weeks. I’m now 37 and I have not given up hope. Ive just ready it starts with an egg and I am currently taking so many vitamins I am rattling!! Im also under the miscarriage clinic. Although it think if will start trying again before I get all of those results back. Because to wait another few months seems counterintuitive when I’m trying everything to make my eggs look like they come from a 20 year old. I’m also waiting again for our post mortum to see how we moved forward. I absolutely understand when you say you need to be pregnant. I also tracked the month I got pregnant. I needed to feel I was in control of my body.
much love