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Possible BFP and terrified

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Msgiggles30 · 22/04/2024 20:37

Hi all,
I am 9 or 10dpo and had the slightest whisper on a boots 5 days early yesterday. I did this tonight on a wonfo with pretty diluted wee and no hold. What do you think?
I am terrified because I had a chemical pregnancy in September and am so worried it will happen again (I have no children and have pcos). I have backache and stomach ache which worries me more. The only positive is that last time I had a late implantation bbt dip and bfp didn't come until 13dpo. Any advice on how to relax if I am pregnant 😫

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Msgiggles30 · 22/04/2024 20:38

Also just to note this are 2 separate tests read within 3 mins and do look pink IRL x

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DameKatyDenisesClagnuts · 22/04/2024 20:58

Kindly, it's prob best to step away from the tests if you can, particularly at this stage of your cycle. I've been through fertility struggles and it's so stressful but I can't see how testing at this stage will do anything for apart from add to the pressure. Flowers

Neurodiversitydoctor · 22/04/2024 21:00

Yes I think there is a line there congratulations I hope it sticks
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Msgiggles30 · 22/04/2024 21:04

I know it's not good to test early I haven't been but had a really weird feeling yesterday and a vivid dream of a bfp haha. I know I just need to chill and wait and I suppose there is nothing I can actually do anyway apart from pray history isn't just repeating itself x

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DameKatyDenisesClagnuts · 22/04/2024 21:05

I really hope all goes well for you x

ToeBeans24 · 22/04/2024 21:20

@Msgiggles30 I just got my BFP today after a chemical in February so I can most definitely relate. I am full of anxiety. I’m just trying to think whatever I do and however many tests I take the outcome sadly won’t be changed. Just taking each day as it comes.

I also have no idea how many DPO I am as I think I had 2 LH surges this month 🤦🏼‍♀️

babyonwayx · 22/04/2024 21:24

Looks exactly like my 9dpo test did... 3 years ago today!!! After a chemical pregnancy in the September 😯

Fingers crossed for a stinky baby and do whatever works for you with testing 🫶🏻

Peonies12 · 22/04/2024 21:27

I’d hold off more tests til the day your period is due. And remember this is nothing you can do to affect the outcome. Hopefully it’s a true BFP; in which case take it day by day. I’m 17 weeks now, after a MC last year. It’s been the longest wait of my life! But I kept reminding myself there was nothing I could do

Msgiggles30 · 22/04/2024 21:36

Congrats @ToeBeans24! Wow @babyonwayx that is a bit spooky! Not going to lie I will probably test with fmu tomorrow just to check im not going mad but then will try to leave it 2 days. Yes I think i just need to keep remembering I can't control it too as hard as that is. Thanks all x

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Msgiggles30 · 22/04/2024 21:37

Congrats to you too @Peonies12 ! X

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overthinkersanonnymus · 22/04/2024 21:43

Congratulations op!!

Today, you are pregnant. You can't know what's around the corner, but today, you're very much pregnant 🎉

Msgiggles30 · 23/04/2024 09:40

Well I am definitely pregnant! Will try to step away from the tests now I've got something a bit clearer that seems pretty strong for 10/11dpo and pray pray pray that it sticks! X

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Harveybelle · 23/04/2024 13:54

I think I'm 9dpo... can see a shadow on two I've taken today. Photos not as clear as in rl x

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imy · 23/04/2024 16:15

Wow @Msgiggles30 that is such a strong positive! Congratulations! That is much stronger than mine was at 10DPO and my daughter is now 1 :)

Msgiggles30 · 23/04/2024 18:30

Thank you! I am so paranoid as feel like I have backache and weird tummy pains but trying to say postive things to myself!

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Msgiggles30 · 25/04/2024 22:28

My 12/13dpo test 😀🤞🤞🤞

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Neurodiversitydoctor · 26/04/2024 05:18

Msgiggles30 · 25/04/2024 22:28

My 12/13dpo test 😀🤞🤞🤞

What does your DH/DP say ? If you have one ?

Olika · 26/04/2024 05:27

Congratulations! I know it's difficult after having experienced previous pregnancy losses but you really can only take it day by day and hope for the best. Take vitamins, eat healthy, exercise and hope for a sticky baby. 🤞🏼🙂

Mrscmay17 · 26/04/2024 06:49

Huge congratulations 🎊

Msgiggles30 · 01/06/2024 18:41

Update for those looking for a positive story after chemicals. My little baby measuring exactly 9 weeks upside down with its legs in the air wiggling about. Fingers crossed this little jelly bean continues to grow 🥰. I've had zero sickness so was worried about that but now just feeling lucky on that front!

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Olika · 01/06/2024 18:55

Amazing update. 🤩 enjoy the journey! 👏

Soulstirring · 01/06/2024 18:57

Lovely update. Congratulations

imy · 01/06/2024 19:04

Amazing!! Congratulations!

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