Please help!!

[Beargirl21]

Hi, I’m due may 19th 2024. I’m trying to work out the day I conceived to rule out the father.
last period 9/08/23
clear blue 1-2 weeks (09/09/23)
clear blue 2-3 weeks(13/09/23)
clear blue 3+ (22/09/23)
I was sexually active all august(man 1) and the 4th and 6th of September (man 2)
thankyou

I'm not an expert at all but I'd say it's man 1 as a clear blue positive so soon after man 2 would be quite rare I'd imagine...

Hugely unlikely to be Man 1 if you got a positive result on 09/09. Do you have a preference? Is a prenatal paternity test not an option?

Looking at your due date you probably conceived last week of August.

Based on the dates I would say Man 1 is likely the father. If you had a positive on 9.9.24 but only started sleeping with Man 2 in 4.9.24, that would be too soon to be him.

Hey I have a couple questions and I could probably tell you what was the start date of the 2 periods before this.

Man 1. I last slept with him the 31st of august. The second man 4th and 6th September only and I got a positive result the 9th of sept

You likely conceived around the middle of your cycle, so late August. It's unlikely given the dates that you conceived in September. But paternity is a serious matter, obviously, so rather than ask strangers on the internet you should have a DNA test taken.

My last period was the 9th of august lasting 5 days. Befor hand I didn’t have one due to coming of contraception!

I just put your due date into an online calculator and got this.

Do either of them know about the pregnancy? And if so do they know they aren't the only candidate?

Its probably man 1. A normal cycle length is 21-35 day so even is we look at every option its very unlikely to be man 2 (however the egg can survive up to 24hrs putting the 4th September as an option only if you usually have a long cycle length.

Hope this helps

I've put all the options below depending on cycle length(with the help of chatgpt)

• 21 days: August 14th, 2023 - August 20th, 2023
• 22 days: August 15th, 2023 - August 21st, 2023
• 23 days: August 16th, 2023 - August 22nd, 2023
• 24 days: August 17th, 2023 - August 23rd, 2023
• 25 days: August 18th, 2023 - August 24th, 2023
• 26 days: August 19th, 2023 - August 25th, 2023
• 27 days: August 20th, 2023 - August 26th, 2023
• 28 days: August 21st, 2023 - August 27th, 2023
• 29 days: August 22nd, 2023 - August 28th, 2023
• 30 days: August 23rd, 2023 - August 29th, 2023
• 31 days: August 24th, 2023 - August 30th, 2023
• 32 days: August 25th, 2023 - August 31st, 2023
• 33 days: August 26th, 2023 - September 1st, 2023
• 34 days: August 27th, 2023 - September 2nd, 2023
• 35 days: August 28th, 2023 - September 3rd, 2023

@Beargirl21 Sorry, I mistyped. Hugely unlikely to be Man 2. A very unfortunate typo!

Thankyou! Befor hand my usual cycle would be every 30 days! So it does make sense to be man 1 if the contraception didn’t mess my cycle up. I would know as I only had one befor falling pregnant. The 8th of sept was my next expected period which I didn’t get as a I had a positive test on the 9th

I missed the last update its definately man 1 implantation happens on day 6 earliest so the earliest you can get a positive is 8 days after conception and you got a positive 5 days after man 2 so it cant be him.