Hi all..
So I've been trying to conceive my last baby for 8 months, and it's been a slog, not going to lie.
The constant POAS, stressing, trying to calender in DTD so make sure we are covered, wondering if we did enough, the dreaded TWW and symptom spotting, I just couldn't do another month of it.
I stopped it all. The only thing I have done differently is not stress and relax. What I did notice but didn't overthink as it's incredibly soul destroying constantly getting negative tests were these little bits...
♡ A small amount of blood around 8DPO and cramping for a few days like my period was about to start. This has happened in previous pregnancies, so I had a slight inkling but didn't want to get my hopes up as it happened prior to AF for me.
♡ Increase in discharge (but this is normal prior to period for me anyway, so didn't overthink)
♡ Weird, very vivid dreams. Mainly about my daddy, who passed away 2019. Again, it's not something that would strike me as a symptom because I'm a vivid dreamer anyway. However, these were odd and very 'real'.
♡ The worst case of tonsillitis I have EVER had. I had to be hospitalised. I'm only just home with another week of antibiotics. I mean, this isn't a symptom, but it's like my immune system dropped, and I was ravaged by bacteria. So poorly.
♡ This isn't something I've had with previous pregnancies, but I've been red hot. All of the time, like sweating. I genuinely thought I was peri menipaus having hot sweats. Must be hormones.
No boob pains or anything like that. However, at this point, at just around 4 weeks pregnant, I feel terribly sick. I suffer from HG in pregnancy, but it's never quite hit this early. Multiple? Argh, who knows!
I'm going to be following this thread and praying you all get your BFPs xx