BFN 😭

[Katie1900]

Just wanted to say to anyone else having a BFN that I hope your all ok.
I have started having my Bfns for the month now and it is so hard.
I can't even see anymore I see lines everywhere 😔
It's so unbelievably heart breaking!

Ah babe I fully get you. Thinking of taking a month off TTC to just give myself a break. Sending hugs xx

@Katie1900 how many dpo are you? Negatives are soul destroying but you're not out til AF arrives. Keeping everything crossed for you 💕🤞🏻xx

@Onthedouble123 i am too early to test but that's my first one of the month and I just know loads more will follow 😔 I can't help myself but test and I know it's to early.
Sick of sicking that awful stark white space with not even a hint of anything! Xx

Hi, new to this forum and really needing advice I have pcos and have been Ttc for 5 years now on metformin took this test last night and now these this morning all advice welcome please

@Mellissa2288 did the one with the second line appear within 5 mins? And did you take all of those tests at the same time? X

Hi, yeah the two lines after maybe 7 minutes and the rest was all at the same time this morning? Just hoping it’s not a evap with its being as strong a line and with colour?

@Mellissa2288 thats a really strong line! It so confusing sometimes! I took this is morning and had a odd dye run on it.
Thought I could see a faint line but again line eyes!

If it didn’t appear until after 7 minutes then I’d assume its an indent/evap line. Those tests are only to be read between 3-5 mins, if there is no second line after 5 mins it’s negative and best to pop in the bin x

It’s such a heartbreaking cycle I’m praying this is a postive test as I’ve never had any evap or indent so strong a line so here’s hoping 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Fingers crossed for you! Maybe if you have a chance pop out and grab some different tests so that you can compare? X

@Katie1900 it's heartbreaking isn't it, we're on month 13 now and never even seen an evap line nevermind a positive. I can recommend not testing until at least 12dpo, I know it's hard and it's still heartbreaking when you get the negative but you do do save yourself from that gut wrenching "punch" to the stomach every time it's negative.

I feel your pain..I have been trying for 8 months. How long have u been trying...every month is a struggle

@Katie1900 I feel you. Been trying for 2 years now and never gets easier. Get addicted to testing too

10dpo and a BFN here 🫣. On to the 4th month of trying for number 2.

I'm still having negatives too. We tried a while ago with little luck gave up and then 4 months ago decided on another go.
It's honestly exhausting. The testing, the line eyes and waiting.
Heres my very obvious negative today but my line eyes drive me mad.

@Katie1900 yours looks similar to mine but I have such bad line eyes that I see a hint of something 9 times out of 10 😭.

@Theosmommy2011 yep me too a line on everything when there is a line on nothing at all. Below is another test I think I see a line on and there and there isn't one!
I don't think I'll ever see a positive on a test 😔

@Katie1900 I see something on that one too. I know it's really hard, I can't imagine seeing two solid pink lines and I want to so much. Will you keep testing? I feel crampy today again like af is coming but will be 8 days late tomorrow

@Theosmommy2011 I'm not late yet AF due Friday but feeling like it's coming tonight 😔
I've never been through anything like this, with my daughter it was easy. I never thought we'd struggle.
Are u going to test?

@Katie1900 ooh there's still time for you, I will keep everything crossed for you. I know what you mean, been pregnant 3 times and have my two boys and my boy in heaven. Got pregnant straight away those times. I have endo and adenomyosis though so think that is hindering me this time. I will probably test if af doesn't show tomorrow. I would like to say no but I know I don't have that much self control 😂

@Theosmommy2011 I'll keep everything crossed for you!
I didn't realise it would be this difficult!
I'm 34 so maybe I have a few years left in me but dh is 51 so I don't know if his age is an issue!
Let me know what happens!

@Katie1900 you have lots of time, keep me updated also 🥰

Completely understand your heartbreak. I have stopped buying pregnancy tests now. I’ll only go and buy one of my AF is over a week late.

I couldn’t cope with all the BFN- half the time I was testing too early anyway.

@Doveytail i think I might start doing that it's awful. I am sorry your feeling like me too 😔 wouldnt wish it on anyone.
As silly as it sounds sometimes I'm happy to see AF so I can end the torture of not knowing.
I'll keep my fingers crossed for us all!

Also got a BFN 😢 TTC after 4 miscarriages in a year .... I have the worst line eyes though and I've even got DH having bad line eyes 🤣 AF is due tomorrow or the next day

Hope everyone is ok x