7dp3dt...am I out?

[JessAM]

I am a wreck. Trying to keep it together at work. Been testing everyday since the transfer (I know, slap on the wrist, naughty behaviour) and never a sliver of a BFP. About to draw a second red line on the HPTs myself and fully give in to losing my mind completely!

Symptoms since transfer have been MASSIVELY sore boobs that really started 3dp3dt, cramping and twinging and tingling and burning sensation in my uterus, some light headaches and light heartburn. Not that symptoms even matter, because the drugs can cause all of these things!

Am I out yet? I fluctuate between having hope and believing the whole thing has failed. This was mine and my wife's only embryo from our past collection, so already thinking of scheduling our next collection... :(

Your clinic should have given you a test date. My date was 2 weeks after 5dt
And even then my line was super faint. Its really difficult to tell and unfortunately all you can do is wait it out

Deffo not out!

My test day was day 9. A lot say to wait till 14.
Hold out, not out of the game yet!

Best of luck

Too early for sure - definitely not out! You're only equivalent to 10dpo - I wouldn't event expect a squinter really till 12dpo and even then it can be later x

You're not out yet - good luck 🤞🏻

Thank you so much everyone for your reminders. I know I could read essentially the same responses on someone else’s post, but it’s nice to hear some people telling me this directly

@JessAM how did you get on

Unfortunately my cycle ended up failing. You were right though, 7dp3dt is too early for testing a 3dt. We didn't have any frozen embryos, and we used my wife's egg for the cycle last time. She is 37 years old, so we are going to do an ivf cycle in a couple months with my eggs (I'm only 31) so hopefully next time will be our round🙂thanks for checking on me. 2WW was emotional hell!