Hi @Brianna4kd! How are you doing?
I'm currently at 16dpo and I'm too nervous to test 😅
I've had my usual spotting from about 6dpo and it's been pretty light but hasn't stopped really at all this month. AF 'proper' I think was due yesterday, but it's hard to tell because for a long time I was marking my spotting as real AF and annoyingly I haven't marked when the heavier 'real' flow starts in most previous months (was yesterday according to last month). But how can all that spotting be good for a BFP? Although I have read a few positive stories.
The only reason I was holding onto hope this month was because I've been feeling queasy, had stuffy nose/sore throat, by boobs feel sore in a different way (actually way less sore than usual), have had lots of ovary twinges, I've been starving after I've just eaten, my spotting has been lighter, my temp has stayed high and still is, by RHR has steadily gone up.
ANYWAY, I feel so sure AF is going to turn up, that I think I'll just wait for her. It feels like a softer blow somehow than getting a BFN at 16dpo, which would be pretty definitive. I just hate those stark white tests, ya know.