9dpo ,bfn and struggling

[Bex4567]

Hey ladies...
So I'm really struggling this month more than usual..I'm 9dpo today and ofclorse bfn this morning...I no its early but after vvfl last month that ended in my period its so hard...
The only thing I notice this month is that my boob that's normally sore is extra sore this month like really bad....
Has anyone had a bfn at 9dpo and then got there bfp

Hey!

I know it is really heartbreaking seeing one line. 9dpo is still very early to test.

My advice is try and keep busy, wait until your period is late and then test again.

I really hope you get your positive soon ❤️

@Bex4567 i don’t want to get your hopes up unnecessarily but I have read a lot of posts on here of ladies testing early with bfn & it doesn’t turn to bfp until 12DPO & later & one day they have a complete white test & the next there is a line there. Don’t count yourself out yet but if possible…just wait for a missed period before testing…I personally feel that a negative test is so much more upsetting than af arriving. Get all the preg tests out of the house to avoid temptation. I know how hard that is & how easy it is to get addicted to early testing though. Good luck 🍀🤞🏼

I only got my positive when I was two days late, even then very difficult to see. I tested the day before I was due, too.
Currently 11ish weeks.

Took 7 months.

I got BFN 9,10,11 & 12. Faint at 13 and solid at 14

Thank-you for your reply it's so hard when u want something so much 😪

I had negative tests and then 10 or 11 DPO yesterday got faint positive. Same faint positive today. So don't be disheartened. You could still get a positive a few days later. 🤞 for you.

10 dpo and still bfn think jm out 😪really struggling and it's bringing me down as to why its not happening...we've dtd every other say for y months something must be wrong ..its so hard

@Bex4567 have you done any fertility testing at all?

No j havant I'm to scared too incase they find something bad ..😪I do have a gp appointment next month though that will be 7 months ttc so I'll get bloods ect down then prob

I know it's easier said than done but we all need to try not to test until at least 12dpo. Every month I test early and it's torture, but because it's technically too early to test at that point, I test the next day and the next day and the next day after that. Then we feel that crushing blow of a negative time and time and time again.

I know it's hard and I haven't yet managed to follow my own advice, but currently 8/9dpo so going to try this month not to test.

Basically you can have negative tests up until your period is late and then get a positive.

Good luck and I feel your pain.

I only got BFP at 14 dpo. There is a reason you’re meant to wait for a missed period! You could implant as late as 12 dpo.

How are you doing this month @Bex4567

Hey well I did a test about 2 hours ago thought a saw maybe a vvv faint line and then just left it on the side
Went back to it an hour later to put it in the bin and there was this 🤦‍♀️im 11/12dpo due in 2 days not getting my hopes up I've been stung by indents before but nothing this bright

Oh wow! I can clearly see a line. I'm so pleased (tentative!!) for you. Fingers crossed x

Had you tested negative up to this point?

Yes I have its prob an evap 😢ill have to retest again in the morning but if its is an evap it's mean 😢

That does look positive!

It looks positive but not sure when it appeared 😢due to be putting it down after abut 2 mins thinking it wad negative then returning to put it in the bin to this..nitemare lol

Pink dye don't tend to evap in my experience! 🤞🤞

I've heard easy @home give evaps it's just a bad one if it is 🤦‍♀️and then I def give up lol...evaps shouldn't be aloud

@Bex4567 what was your result when you tested again? Hopefully good news!

Nope negative tests followed due today and only had some brown spotting so far...never buying them tests again they shouldn't be able to sell em