am i now officialy 'late'?

[mad4mybaby]

cut a long story short, been off pill 5 months and have come on days 28,33,30,28. Yesterday would be day 28. I havent come on and been having quite bad period pain type cramps and also when i get up too fast or turn round too quick it feels like im pulling a muscle very low down (womb area?) or a bit like a stitch. I did a hpt sunday and was bfn. Am i now a day late? Or can i not class being late until sat which would be day 33 (latest ive come on) I dont know when im 'supposed' to have come on???

I had that when I got pregnant. Weird pulled muscles in lower abdomen and the worst period pains ever. If you were would this be your first baby?

no second i have a ds already. I dont remember having this when pg with him except i had a very bad pain very very low down and constantly had a hot water bottle and went to the doc when i would have been 4+2 and at first they were worried about eptopic and she did internal and said all was ok and that it was just uterus stretching (i think). Cant ask my sisters or mum as dont want them to know! Just bugging me not knowing if i am late or not?!

Unless you know when you ovulated, and how long your luteal phase is, then it is impossible to know if you are late or not.

Based on the fact that you have had a cycle of 33 days before, then it would be prudent to wait until after then to test.

good luck though.