I’m trying for my second baby - in theory, everything looks great - in practice it’s been one failure after another.
With my daughter (natural FET) I was in almost obnoxiously good shape ( 60 miles hiking most weekend, aerial hope/dance at professional level, and three hours a week at the gym- ate really well, etc etc) and now - with a little one i am … very much not at that level. She’s very much my child so I’m always up and moving but certainly not anything like I used to be. Independent mum so I can’t just go to the gym without finding childcare - and I’m constantly saving towards the next round of treatment so that’s out of the question.
I’d love to feel like there is something I can be doing to improve my fertility that fits around having a little one. I don’t want to be going down the ‘woo’ route but I feel like even if it’s a small change , I’d feel so much better than just throwing my hands up to fate and cursing my useless baby-makin’ bits!