AF late first BFP then BFN

[anonhop]

Hi, wondering if anyone has any advice

TTC with first, always regular 30 day cycle. Never used hormonal contraception/ been on any medication

Here's the timeline!

6-2 days before AF due, had v light spotting- super light

2 days before AF due, got a faint BFP on a 6 day early

Day before AF due, got another faint BFP

Then 2 days after AF due, got 2 BFNs on normal tests

Now 5 days after AF due (still no sign of her), another BFN on a 5 day early.

I'm heartbroken obviously that they've started showing negative, but also a bit confused why AF hasn't shown up?
I did think perhaps chemical, but I've had no bleeding at all. I've never ever been 5 days late before and the two BFPs are playing on my mind. Any suggestions for what might be happening?
Thinking of going to GP (mind is racing thinking ectopic/ early menopause) but feel it's a waste of their time when really it's just a late AF by 5 days?
I've never skipped a cycle or been more than 2 days late. Usually right on time 😥

Irregular cycles when TTC can be quite cruel.

AF will eventually turn up unfortunately. Would suggest taking it easy and being kind to yourself while you await the next cycle attempt.

Thank you <3 I think the two positive tests just completely threw me & combined with being so late just keeps that tiny bit of hope, you know?!
Even though of course we are desperate for a baby, just want AF to come & go so we can get back in the game rather than this limbo!

This is what happened to me with my chemical. I was so annoyed that my period wasn't coming and then it did. Can just take a day or two for the body to realise and the hormones to drop. Hope you are ok x

Thank you <3 I just want af to come now. 6 days late now & been testing negative for 3 days. So ready to draw a line under this.

Thanks for the kind words x