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9dpo and feeling sad

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Shmoo2612 · 12/12/2023 19:05

Hi all

I’ve had 2 miscarriages this year (April & August). Currently 9dpo, sore breasts but that’s about it, I know it’s too early to test but I did and of course it was BFN. With my daughter (now 3yrs old) I tested positive at 8dpo but the two MC were both at 11dpo so I’m I know I’m not out until AF arrives. Just feeling a bit sad as I just have a feeling that AF will arrive and I don’t have any other symptoms whereas the other two times this year I did (cramps etc).

Was hoping for a little Christmas miracle to turn the year around and have a happy ending but I don’t see it happening ☹️

Anyone else 9dpo with me?

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Thrish · 12/12/2023 21:28

Hi,
Sorry to hear about your tough year.

I feel low too. So many pregnancy announcements around and I have feeling that it is not my month again. I am 10 dpo and sore breasts but I know that it is normall PMs symptom for me.

Can't help myself but I feel pure jealousy for my friends who has that miracle.

Send positive vibes

FriedSmartie · 12/12/2023 22:51

I'm 9DPO as well. Did a test today and was negative. We had a miscarriage 2 years ago and had to take a break from trying for a while. This is our 8th cycle since we started trying again. Feel like I'm out this month as well cos just not feeling symptoms other than the usual PMS mood swings.

Swirls346 · 12/12/2023 22:56

I'm 10dpo and also think I'm out this cycle. I haven't tested but had zero symptoms. Had a chemical back in October which is the first hint ever of a natural conception . My son is 2 this month and was conceived via ivf. I always said I at least wanted to be pregnant by his second birthday. But I am so blessed and grateful still to have him. I can't help but wanting a second though.
Sending love . Christmas is a harder time when ttc. Full of pregnancy announcements.

Shmoo2612 · 13/12/2023 07:09

Thanks everyone, it’s nice to know sometimes that you’re not alone! My husband doesn’t understand how I become so “obsessive” in the 2ww and I’ve tried explaining that you just can’t help it, comes with the territory of ttc, I think because it’s our bodies you can’t help but be tuned in to every teeny tiny thing! My temperature has started dropping this morning so I’m fully expecting AF in a few days!

fingers crossed for everyone, you never know! xxx

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Thrish · 17/12/2023 23:26

How is it going? I don't have really regular periods so I am not sure if I am late. I can't force myself to test. I am 32cd and want to wait till 35, I feel little pain on right or left side last 5 days. Still hoping

Thrish · 21/12/2023 18:51

I got very positive test 🤗... Sending baby dust to all

Shmoo2612 · 27/12/2023 12:49

AF turned up eventually so I’m on a new cycle, currently day 14, just posted actually under a new thread as not sure what’s going on with my ovulation this time around!

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