Anybody else ttc and along with their dh cannot be bothered to do the necessary

[stinkfly]

Hi
ttc my 2nd dc have been doing so for over 7 months now.

Tbh I am getting fed up of well you know the necessary and so is my dh.
It has become a bit of a chore and it seems we are only doing it for one reason now.

Also we can only fit it in after 9.00pm every night once our ds has gone to bed and then we are both tired after a long day and are settling down to watch telly.

I feel I am getting stressed about it now and just want to be pregnant so I don,t have to worry about it anymore.

Sometimes I have to force my womanly charms on my dh but alot of the time he is not up for it and is probably settled watching telly etc.
He will say when we go to bed but by the time he comes to bed I have fallen asleep on the sofa or have gone to bed myself.

Does anybody else feel like us.

yeah i do! Esp when you already have a dc running around! We find the w/es are generally best when ds is asleep. We cuddle on the sofa and chat and have a giggle and then....

why dont you try to not 'try' to get pg? As in have sex when you WANT as apposed to when you HAVE to? Reducing the stress will prob help conceive aswell. Or also try to get someone to have your dc so you can go out for a romantic meal or something...

Try to spice up your sex life?? Try to make it more about sex than baby making?