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Anyone TTC Dec 2023

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Cantcareless · 18/11/2023 13:47

Just looking for some company with ladies planning TTC 2023. There's already a thread for Jan 2024 but would be nice to keep company for Dec :)
Initially planned to start TTC 2024 Jan but it's feels time is going too slow and too broody now.
Also, worried about age turned 34 few months ago and feel clock is ticking(just my opinion).

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3ornotto3 · 24/12/2023 08:21

Applesandcake · 24/12/2023 07:27

Test again! A lack of symptoms mean nothing at this stage, every pregnancy is different.

Yeah, you’re totally right. Maybe I’m just actively talking myself out of it to not get my hopes up? But of course, my hopes have permanently be up. I can’t fool myself 😂

How are you feeling? ❤️

Bb542 · 24/12/2023 09:11

I was up at my parents' yesterday and they've no idea we're trying and my mum was telling me what wine she got me in 🤣 then she started talking about a cheese board 🙈 think I'll be playing the "too full" card 🤣

Anyone testing today? Keep us updated 🤞🏼

Applesandcake · 24/12/2023 10:18

3ornotto3 · 24/12/2023 08:21

Yeah, you’re totally right. Maybe I’m just actively talking myself out of it to not get my hopes up? But of course, my hopes have permanently be up. I can’t fool myself 😂

How are you feeling? ❤️

Impatient! 3dpo and it’s draaagging. I was going to test 8dpo (as I had a positive with my son then and my daughter 9dpo), but I can already see I’ll be testing 7dpo despite knowing it would show as negative regardless!

Other than that, I can’t deny that my boobs are a tiny bit sore when normally they are fine even just before AF, so that’s different for me; but I have been here before and realise symptoms mean literally nothing!

Cazzy87 · 24/12/2023 10:33

So AF finally arrived all be it very late, I'm kind of relieved as least its not a missed one completely i just ovulated late! and least now I can enjoy some festivities 😊 happy Christmas ladies! Fingers crossed for next month now ... x

KittyFantastica · 24/12/2023 12:11

4LeafCloverBaby · 22/12/2023 21:16

@KittyFantastica hiya, once you get the static smiley you will likely ovulate the day after (you can confirm this with BBT) so you should have sex for 3 days in a row, miss the forth day & then DTD again on the 5th day…that is the sperm meets egg plan advice

Thank you! Sorry that took a few days to respond, the chaos of Christmas is in full swing.

We are at the in-laws now and I still haven't ovulated. Both of the ovulation trackers I use are still saying no peak detected. Today is day 13 and I've ovulated on day 13 for my last three periods, but typically not this cycle when I'm most anticipating it! We have been DTD every other day within the fertile window just in case and will try to follow the SME plan once I actually ovulate.

It's very difficult to get the time alone while surrounded by family in every room and with MIL putting glasses of wine in my hand every five minutes Xmas Confused

Mummysparrow · 24/12/2023 12:34

@Bb542 I am still drinking. I am not a heavy drinker so don't think the amount of alcohol I will be drinking would affect early pregnancy but I understand why people don't drink during the tww.
I believe today i am 1dpo and I am using the Christmas festivities as a way of making time pass quickly and hopefully easier. TBF last time i was TTC I was quite chill first month as well and it only ramped up in the second month of TTC 🤣

everhopefulagain · 24/12/2023 14:11

Mummysparrow · 24/12/2023 12:34

@Bb542 I am still drinking. I am not a heavy drinker so don't think the amount of alcohol I will be drinking would affect early pregnancy but I understand why people don't drink during the tww.
I believe today i am 1dpo and I am using the Christmas festivities as a way of making time pass quickly and hopefully easier. TBF last time i was TTC I was quite chill first month as well and it only ramped up in the second month of TTC 🤣

I'm having a glass of Prosecco tomorrow. I'll be 8dpo.

3ornotto3 · 24/12/2023 15:40

Lots of love to you @Cazzy87 🎄 enjoy the Christmas period (no pun intended) with your loved ones and have some lovely wine 💛💛

@Applesandcake i feel you, it’s hard not to try have a little early peek, even if we try remind ourselves that it’s unlikely we’ll get a positive at anything before 10 (or 9) dpo, but we just hold on to that small bit of hope 🥲

CharliP33 · 24/12/2023 16:51

Hey everyone! I'm keeping up with what you're all up to, just not much to add from me as I'm at the start of a new fertile window now. Think I should be ovulating in a few days, so just getting ready to try again!

Hope you all have a wonderful Christmas tomorrow <3

Bb542 · 24/12/2023 18:32

I bought the clear blue early test today. Just not sure when to take one. AF would be due on New Year's Eve, so 7 days from now 🤔 do they even work?🤣

RRAEE · 24/12/2023 19:15

@Bb542 I'm due AF around same time as you on the 30th/31st. Hoping the 7 days go by quickly 😅

Bb542 · 24/12/2023 19:26

Me too! It's been dragging so much 😭 I've gone the whole year saying how much time is flying and now it's dragging 🤣

RRAEE · 24/12/2023 19:42

@Bb542 same 😅 hopefully the Christmas festivities help speed up the time !

4LeafCloverBaby · 24/12/2023 20:13

@onetwoandthree & @jossiwood updates please 😬😊
So 11dpo & my “clutching at straws symptoms are…my nipples are feeling a bit weird & I have a sore throat 😂 AF is due on Wednesday 😬🙈

Bb542 · 24/12/2023 20:15

4LeafCloverBaby · 24/12/2023 20:13

@onetwoandthree & @jossiwood updates please 😬😊
So 11dpo & my “clutching at straws symptoms are…my nipples are feeling a bit weird & I have a sore throat 😂 AF is due on Wednesday 😬🙈

Have everything crossed for you @4LeafCloverBaby 🤞🏼 have you tested yet?

4LeafCloverBaby · 24/12/2023 20:30

@Bb542 thank you darling, no I haven’t…I will just wait for AF or missed period to test. This is my 1st month trying & I feel like AF will be slightly easier to deal with than a negative test. I don’t have any in the house as I know I would have been testing from 1DPO otherwise 🤣😂🤣😭🙈

3ornotto3 · 25/12/2023 03:12

…are my eyes deceiving me?! Can you tell me what you see? Please don’t be afraid to call me out and say you don’t see anything

ps - merry chrimmmus 🎄

Anyone TTC Dec 2023
LottieW93 · 25/12/2023 06:47

@3ornotto3 I 100% see something. Mine started off like this. And yesterday I got my BFP on clear blue digital! xx

Applesandcake · 25/12/2023 07:00

3ornotto3 · 25/12/2023 03:12

…are my eyes deceiving me?! Can you tell me what you see? Please don’t be afraid to call me out and say you don’t see anything

ps - merry chrimmmus 🎄

Second visible line! You are definitively pregnant!

Bb542 · 25/12/2023 07:29

3ornotto3 · 25/12/2023 03:12

…are my eyes deceiving me?! Can you tell me what you see? Please don’t be afraid to call me out and say you don’t see anything

ps - merry chrimmmus 🎄

You are definitely pregnant!! Congrats @3ornotto3 💖 the best news on Christmas morning 🥰

I did one of those early Clear Blue tests this morning and got a BFN. I know it's still early but don't have a good feeling 🥺

Linalou12 · 25/12/2023 07:39

@3ornotto3 I see it too! Congratulations, what a fab Christmas present!

Fawklight · 25/12/2023 08:28

3ornotto3 · 25/12/2023 03:12

…are my eyes deceiving me?! Can you tell me what you see? Please don’t be afraid to call me out and say you don’t see anything

ps - merry chrimmmus 🎄

I've just woken and haven't got my glasses on but I'm afraid your might not be drinking this Christmas 😉

Looks positive to me merry Christmas. xx

BeWhereYouAre · 25/12/2023 09:20

Oh my! @3ornotto3 congratulations on your positive!! ✨️🤩💖 Merry Christmas to all

4LeafCloverBaby · 25/12/2023 09:37

@3ornotto3 yay!!! Congratulations hun!! So excited for you!!! Merry Christmas 🎄 xx

jossiwood · 25/12/2023 09:50

@3ornotto3 ahhhhhh congratulations, so happy for you . Happy Christmas everyone , even if we don't get bfps we are closer to our next cycle

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