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6 BFP then 2BFN

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SH1990 · 15/11/2023 19:25

Hi all! Hoping someone else has been through this and can help me figure it all out! I ovulated 29th nov (17 days ago) we are TTC I was due on on Monday 2 days ago and havnt come on. On Saturday I tested with early tests and had faint line, used 3 tests. On Sunday I tested and had slightly darker liner and a positive digital pregnancy test. I’ve had really sore boobs also. I tested again this morning and it was negative (digital) then did a 2nd one at work and it was also negative. I don’t have any bleeding. Wondering if it could be a chemical pregnancy? Or the 6 I did last weekend were false? Or do I just wait a few days and do another one and hope for the best?!

6 BFP then 2BFN
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Outliers · 15/11/2023 19:29

I would see if you get a positive with the cheap strips or an alternative test. Sometimes the digital test lack sensitivity

SH1990 · 15/11/2023 19:36

ok thanks! I did get the positive from the digital a few days ago before the negative one today but I’ve just jumped on Amazon and ordered some early cheapies to arrive tomorrow

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XenaTheWarriorPrincess · 15/11/2023 20:53

Unfortunately, yes this does sound like a very early loss. A positive digital followed by a negative digital a couple of days later most means you are no longer pregnant

SH1990 · 15/11/2023 20:59

thank you, appreciate the honestly, tough times!

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MrBigsCat · 15/11/2023 22:11

XenaTheWarriorPrincess · 15/11/2023 20:53

Unfortunately, yes this does sound like a very early loss. A positive digital followed by a negative digital a couple of days later most means you are no longer pregnant

Was going to say the same, just been through similar and my google search for positive then negative test success stories was mental but I really hardly found any and then my period started a few days after. So sorry you are going through this

SH1990 · 15/11/2023 22:46

Gosh, awful isn’t it! Sorry you’re going through this too. We will get there!

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Yolo23 · 16/11/2023 00:35

@SH1990 sorry to hear that you’re going through this! I had the same back in Nov last year - positives on all tests (cheapies, digital and early detection) at 11dpo, got to maybe 15dpo and everything turned negative. So sad! It was clearly a chemical pregnancy. I’ve had no joy since but hopefully you’ll know for sure when you can test again soon xx

SH1990 · 16/11/2023 07:43

thank you for sharing your experience. Very sad and a bit of a shock but on we go! I really hope it happens for you soon xx

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MrBigsCat · 17/11/2023 07:09

@SH1990 how are you today? Did af start yet or have you done any more tests?

SH1990 · 17/11/2023 07:53

Bit down in the dumps, turns out it was a CP. couple of days off work with rom coms and chocolate and time to try again I guess! Thanks for checking in :)

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MrBigsCat · 17/11/2023 09:02

@SH1990 you know sperm definitely met egg so your timing is perfect and you know you can conceive. I just try and reassure myself with these facts. Hope your bleeding won’t be bad, mine was literally 2 days of heavy then nothing so was different to a period.
rom coms and chocolate sound good
hope to see you post your bfp really soon
if you search for success after chemical you will find hundreds of anecdotal stories of bfp after chemicals (this kept me going through my last 2 cycles as they both ended in a chemical)

SH1990 · 17/11/2023 09:38

Yes! That’s a really good point, thanks for your encouraging words! We’re half way there aren’t we! Baby dust to us both in the near future!

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