im so pesimistic.. already looking at NEXT 2ww. ANYBODY??

[mad4mybaby]

Im feeling so negative this month its untrue. Been off pill 4 months (5 next week) was convinved i was pg last month (like you do) and am currently halfway on my 2ww. I have had things that im thinking are pg symptoms and bd when had very positive opk but.....

My cycles have been 28,33,30,28 so im due on anytime from next tuesday (week tomorrow). I have already been trying to work out rough fertile days and where we are etc next month. Im so sad, does anyone else get like this or doing this??

Hi mad4mybaby - I conceived 6mths after having my mirena out and am now 11wks pg...

I felt like you and thought it was never going to happen. My cycles were also a varied (35, 32, 30, 28, 34) and I finally got my bfp on day 35.

Take each cycle as it comes and look out for your bodies signs of ovulation (ewcm, ov pains etc). You are not sad - just don't give up hope!

Good luck

Yes, Mad4mybaby, lots of us feel down like this from time to time.
The thing I have noticed is that the more I think about and focus on whether I might be pregnant, the more erratic my cycles seem to become, so I have concluded that a relaxed approach is the only way.
It's useful to know how your cycles work anyway, even if you're not TTC, so that is definitely not sad, it's useful information.

Good luck from me too.

thanks guys! x