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Chemical pregnancy

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EllaRose21 · 09/11/2023 08:44

Last year in October I got pregnant and I was 4 weeks and 5 days when I had a chemical. For whatever reason I am pregnant now and 4 weeks and 3 days. And I am freaking out by the coincidence. Period were both 10th of October. I am scared it will happen again. I can't sleep and can't stop thinking about it 😪 anyone dealt with something similar?

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ladycarlotta · 09/11/2023 10:11

Just hang in there! Take it day by day, that's all you can do. You can't control tomorrow.
For today, you are pregnant, and that's all you are going to have to sustain yourself with until at least the end of the first trimester. I know it feels so triggering when you've been through it all before, but there is no reason for this pregnancy to not progress. Good luck! x

EllaRose21 · 09/11/2023 10:14

Makes sense when you put like that. So true, but hard. Thanks for your kind words 🙏

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secondfavouritesocks · 09/11/2023 10:15

try testing later and not getting upset by early conceptions that don't establish. Most conceptions don't establish, so testing so early just means women these days are far more aware of times they nearly got pregnant but didn't quite. There is nothing to be gained from this - early testing has no advantages at all. A generation ago noone would even know if they had concieved at 4 weeks 5 days

4LeafCloverBaby · 09/11/2023 11:06

secondfavouritesocks · 09/11/2023 10:15

try testing later and not getting upset by early conceptions that don't establish. Most conceptions don't establish, so testing so early just means women these days are far more aware of times they nearly got pregnant but didn't quite. There is nothing to be gained from this - early testing has no advantages at all. A generation ago noone would even know if they had concieved at 4 weeks 5 days

This 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

EllaRose21 · 09/11/2023 13:39

I get your point and thank you but when you are actively trying you can't just sit there watch years go by. I personally have been very in touch with my body in terms of physiology and I awalys caught my pregnancies before even missing my period. Maybe it is a curse but it is what it is. Thank you

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Oldandtrying23 · 11/11/2023 08:14

hi all bit of advice. I have had 3 more miscarriages since may - 2x chemicals recently. I tested at 8/9 dpo stark negative , tested again at 10dpo faint line. The line still seems faint to me at 12dpo .. anyone had experience of a slow developing line or am I setting myself up for another chemical? 😩this is from the Premom app so apologies if bit hard to see

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Oldandtrying23 · 13/11/2023 06:41

14 dpo had a positive on a digital 1-2 weeks but lines still quite faint. Can anyone help as I’m terrified this will be MC no 4 😭

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