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TTC - confused!

15 replies

Shmoo2612 · 02/11/2023 10:21

Hi all

TTC Second child and this year have had two back to back MC each at 7 weeks along.

I have a very consistent 11-12 luteal phase and believe today I am 13dpo. Still no sign of AF, but at 12dpo all day I had really sharp pains on my right side near my ovary, and my breasts are sore, light pink spotting yesterday morning and again this morning but nothing else after first things in the morning. Still getting BFNs, is this just the early signs of AF showing up and I’m just having a weird cycle?! It’s driving me crazy!

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Smile2134 · 02/11/2023 14:33

Hi there! I am 13 DPO as well I feel like I have had so many symptoms this month. I just tested and got a BFN so I think I am out! 😔 But you sound like you could have implanted late maybe! Otherwise AF is playing tricks on you which is the WORST!

Shmoo2612 · 02/11/2023 14:50

Smile2134 · 02/11/2023 14:33

Hi there! I am 13 DPO as well I feel like I have had so many symptoms this month. I just tested and got a BFN so I think I am out! 😔 But you sound like you could have implanted late maybe! Otherwise AF is playing tricks on you which is the WORST!

Ah you never know! We’re not out until AF arrives! I still haven’t had any further spotting or bleeding since a tiny amount this morning, no cramps anymore (it was all yesterday with those sharp pains), we shall see! I just want to know either way, it’s so frustrating!

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Smile2134 · 02/11/2023 14:52

True! We will see. But please keep updating! Have you tested? Worst case we will be together next round! 😊

Shmoo2612 · 02/11/2023 14:54

I tested this morning and it was BFN, and again early afternoon (because I’m totally obsessed), I have lots of the cheap ones to work my way through haha! I also have a clearblue in the cupboard but I save those good ones for “confirmation” if the cheap ones ever indicate a positive!

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Smile2134 · 02/11/2023 14:59

Im sorry to hear that about your BFN. Believe me! I am the same way!! It’s a very painful journey! But you never know!

Shmoo2612 · 02/11/2023 15:26

I shall keep you updated! Mostly coz I’m driving my husband crazy with my constant updates 😂

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Smile2134 · 02/11/2023 15:40

I know that feeling too! I here for all of the updates!

Shmoo2612 · 03/11/2023 06:33

BFN again this morning, but breasts are still sore and absolutely zero spotting today or cramps, so just the very light pink spotting I had on Weds morning first thing and Thursday morning first thing. What on Earth is going on?! Holding out hoping I ovulated a bit later than I thought and it’s still possible?! I wasn’t meticulously tracking this month, no temping as I wanted a break so I was just going by EWCM so who knows?! If AF is going to arrive I wish she’d hurry up and stop driving me crazy, I hate not knowing!

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Smile2134 · 03/11/2023 17:19

Ugh!! That is so frustrating! Maybe you did ovulate later! I am in the same boat, I didn’t test this AM(too scared) and no AF. I am so dizzy today it’s actually freaking me out. I agree I just wanna know!

Shmoo2612 · 03/11/2023 19:42

Well it’s evening now and still no sign! I’ve ordered some more cheap tests so they’ll come tomorrow at some point, if still no AF I’ll test probably tomorrow afternoon once they get delivered 😂

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Smile2134 · 04/11/2023 13:23

AF arrived yesterday for me! But I’ve still got my fingers crossed for you!

Shmoo2612 · 04/11/2023 15:52

Oh I’m sorry AF arrived but at least it’s the end of waiting and you can try again next time, clean slate! Still not here for me, BFN today still and some very light brown cm (sorry tmi!), breasts are still sore, if anything they’re getting worse so I’m sooo confused! Literally no idea what’s going on anymore! I guess I just have to wait and see!

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Smile2134 · 05/11/2023 03:41

Ahh that’s so frustrating!!! The two week wait is bad enough let alone longer and having no answers :( fingers still crossed for you!

Shmoo2612 · 05/11/2023 06:53

Smile2134 · 05/11/2023 03:41

Ahh that’s so frustrating!!! The two week wait is bad enough let alone longer and having no answers :( fingers still crossed for you!

AF has arrived this morning! I’m oddly relieved just because it’s all over and I finally know! I was like “oh finally!”

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Smile2134 · 05/11/2023 12:39

I know that feeling! I’m sorry she came though! But we have next month! 🙏🏼

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