Please don't judge I was hoping for abit of advice and help. I am in my late 20s and have never been pregnant.
I had been with my boyfriend for about a year we spilt up for 2 months over things he was doing in the relationship.
I stupidly slept with my ex partner 10th February I made him wear protection but he removed it, i came on my period 1 days later 11th feb which was for about 4-5 days which is a normal for me my cycle is about 30days. My partner showed up at my house wanting to make it work and he booked a holiday 23rd feb - 2nd March where we were intimate throughout.
I missed my period in March I knew something wasnt right I started to get symptoms two weeks after holiday so I did a test on 20th march and it confirmed 2-3 weeks pregnant which shows I conceived after my period. I wanted to double check so I booked an early dating scan in April advising I was 10weeks 4 days pregnant due 19th November which shows I fell pregnant after my period around time I was on holiday. I just assumed this was very clear it was my partners and we agreed we would have the baby. My 12 week scan also gave me a due date 17th November.
However my ex has found out I’m pregnant and is adamant there is a chance it is his even though I have clear dates of conception after my period. He’s not been the nicest person if I’m honest, he’s demanding dna and pictures when she’s here and has been telling his family about it all. I feel like a terrible person this is even happening. Even though I broke up with my partner at beginning of pregnancy for various reasons I would never want to do that to someone.
This may sound stupid but I have had 4D scans and she is the spit of my partner. (Was partner) I feel like awful and on edge that I have got this all wrong😔 i was wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation? How accurate are dating scans I would be due two weeks earlier if it was my ex’s but I have a feeling she will be abit late I have had afew extra growth scans as she has been measuring a smaller baby.
Any advice would be great Thankyou xx