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cd 43 still no af have symptoms and bfn

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 08:34

hi ladies

i stopped pill jan 23rd to try for baby number 2
had light withdrawal bleed jan 26th for only 2 days and nothing since.
have lots of white cm,weeing more often,forgetfulness,tingly breasts.
also i am on citalopram antidepressants.

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peanutbear · 10/03/2008 08:43

I cant help much except to say when I was pregnant the second time I had no BFP for about 2 months even when I had a test done at the DRs I went for a scan in the end, I was 11 weeks gone I think the pill can cause all sorts of upsets to your routines

on the other hand your periods may be just taking time to get back into a rhythm

I said I wasnt going to be much help sorry

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 08:44

hi pb thanks for comments
should i go to drs for blood test?

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 08:50

phoned drs dont do blood tests for pregnancy

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 08:51

used ebay cheap pee sticks is it worth me buyuing tesco own test and testing later

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peanutbear · 10/03/2008 08:52

I would and then you could find out if it is the pill does cd 43 mean you are 2.5 weeks overdue your period

I never show as being positive till 3-4 on the home kits maybe they dont work on me !!!

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 08:58

yep thats right i was due feb 23rd
that is interesting

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EiWishFor3MoreWishes · 10/03/2008 13:23

hi pink just wanted to post my support to you here no advice as such just to say i would definitly buy a test like a clearblue as they have been more reliable to people in the past than the ebay cheapies have been
xx ei xx

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 13:30

i am going to go for tesco tests

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Playingthewaitinggame · 10/03/2008 13:54

I can't really advise as I have never really been in the situation myself but I do know that sometimes it takes a long time for periods to come back properly after coming off the pill. Certainly 43 days would not be unusual and I have read threads on here where it took several months. Visit the gp if you are unsure but she/he might just reiterate that it might take a while for your samples to get back to normal.

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 14:38

thanks

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marchbunny · 10/03/2008 14:51

Hi pinkgirl when I came of the pill to try for ds3, I think it took around 40 days to get my first proper period, I was convinced I must have been pregnant! On the plus side, I conceived the next month!! DS3 is now 8 months. Will keep my fingers crossed that you get some sort of answer soon.

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 16:17

cheers mb that is very useful

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pinkgirl30 · 10/03/2008 16:34

tesco test bfn

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pinkgirl30 · 11/03/2008 07:56

had clear cm last nite

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calsworld · 11/03/2008 09:00

hi pinkgirl - i think i've posted on another thread that you've been on - i'm on cd40 today and still bfn's. Since having DS1 I've had three regular periods all at 28 day cycles as was normal before DS. Now, nothing...

So far I've used two x clear blue digital tests, two x tesco and two x acon early test (from access diagnostics.

The last two were more sensitive tests than the cbd and tesco but still BFN.

Ho hum...she keeps waiting...good luck to you!

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pinkgirl30 · 11/03/2008 11:32

we could be cycle buddies then? it is frustrateing waiting isnt it i have used clear blue tesco tests and ebay strips 2!!
heres hoping for two bfps for us

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Disenchanted · 11/03/2008 11:35

Y'know, I know this isnt what you want to hear,

but when I came off the pill last time I had a normal 30 day cycle then my next one was 92 days long!

I wasn't pregnant, it can just happen after the pill.

But when my AF finally did come I got Pregnant 2 weeks later!

calsworld · 11/03/2008 11:38

D, I haven't been on the pill since 2005...got pregnant in march 06 and had no AF till Nov 07 when DS turned 1. Since then been regular as clockwork...

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pinkgirl30 · 11/03/2008 11:38

hi disenchanted thats ok realise that it might be pill messing up cycles
it must have been o frustarting having a cycle for 92 days
good luck for you

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Teuch · 11/03/2008 11:43

just crashing to say good luck to all and a note about hpt's...clear blue in particular!

Clear blue are deemed to be the clearest to interpret and are pretty accurate - but not when testing early!!! They are nowhere near as sensitive as First Response Early Response and some of the ebay cheapies!!

Clearblue tends to need 50mIU/mL before detecting a +ve whereas FRER is only 25mIU/mL (but can be as low as 12.5) and the cheapy ebay ones are usually around 10-15mIU/mL.

Don't waste your money on Clearblue until you are a certain as can be that you are 2 weeks past ovulation.

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pinkgirl30 · 11/03/2008 13:16

hi t that is useful information
is weeing more often just a sign of being pregnant? or could it b a sign of af coming 2?

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Disenchanted · 11/03/2008 15:58

I dont think weeing is linked to AF but is to PG!

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pinkgirl30 · 11/03/2008 17:51

thanks di have been weeing for england this afternoon
good luck for testing in the morning

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pinkgirl30 · 11/03/2008 18:59

could i be pregnant with all my symptoms?
when should i test again?

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calsworld · 12/03/2008 08:37

Any news pinkgirl?

I'm on CD41 and still counting...