any help is appreciated

[nik29099]

hi, please no judgement I haven't been able to sleep or eat for days.
basically me & my partner decided to have a little break as we have a baby and was struggling with work/financially and just kept arguing over silly things.
during this break I stupidly had sex with an ex on the 7th of September (he didn't ejaculate inside me but ive now found out you can still get pregnant from pre cum!
me and my partner then decided to get back together and makes things work.
we had sex on the 14th of September he obviously did ejaculate inside me and then again a few days after that.

my last period was 2nd of September.

I done a test on the 29th of September and it says 2-3 weeks.

Is it more likly to be my partners or my ex's? or will I have to pay £800 for a DNA before baby born!? I really don't know want to do in this situation I haven't told my partner about me and my ex 😥

@nik29099 hey! That’s a tough one but you obviously needed to see the ex for some sort of clarification of your feelings. I’d be honest now with your partner, rather than later. If you were not together (on a break at the time) hopefully he will come to terms with everything. But you need to feel ready for his emotions to explode, you also need to keep yourself together. Have an explanation ready and keep to it, it was a decision you have made (everything happens for a reason.) You need to know he’s not going to be happy until he sees the dna results too. Keep me updated x

When was your ovulation window it depends if the ex was way off from it or not then go from there and tell your partner what happened