TTC #2 feeling a bit down

[Kate3150]

Now entering month 5 and I just don’t feel very optimistic.
I was very lucky to conceive #1 quickly, but this time round my cycles are all over the shop and I feel less hopeful.
Lots of people I’ve spoken to have said they’ve found it easier to conceive second time round which also makes me more worried.
i know it can take time and you can’t compare yourself to others but just been feeling reflective this weekend.
I don’t think being on my period helps either!! X

I found after I’d had my first that I ovulated nearer day 20, do you know when you ovulate?
I also looked into hormone balancing supplements to regulate long and irregular cycles which I recommend.
you know you can conceive as you have done it before, you are maybe just missing the fertile window? Sending you loads of baby dust