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2 days late, scared to test

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DawnWW · 22/09/2023 00:02

Hi all.

I've been getting such bad stomach cramps and feeling like AF is due for nearly a week now. The pain is getting so intense I honestly feel like it should have started already. Apps show it as 2 days late, I did 2 CB early detection tests both with BFN (one 5 days before AF due and one 2 days).

I'm scared to test because of the disappointment seeing a BFN or that something may be wrong if I am very early pregnant as it should have shown up on the early test I did. Why would the hormone levels be so low? Really driving myself mad stressing about it which probably isn't helping but I feel like I'm on with no bleeding the way the pain is. I don't this this is an early pregnancy symptom is it? I'm thinking I'll just be late this month, I might try to test tomorrow but I'm honestly just getting worried and the disappointment of seeing a BFN is putting me off.

Anyone experienced similar or words of advice?

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Hiddenvoice · 22/09/2023 08:39

With my first pregnancy, I had such bad cramps that I was moaning to my dh how lucky he was to not ever experience period cramps. Then I was 2 days late and just felt like my period wasn’t going to start and that’s when I took a test.

I know it can be scary and nerve wracking but please take a test, that will help you decide if you’re pregnant or maybe getting a bit stressed and having an irregular period this month.

DawnWW · 22/09/2023 11:44

Thanks, I know I need to just didn't have this with my 14 month old. I tested the day before I was due and it was very clearly positive. We struggled to conceive and had losses and lots of problems in pregnancy so it adds a baseline of stress. I'm going to test this afternoon when I can get to the shop to buy one

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Hiddenvoice · 22/09/2023 17:18

I fully understand, it’s such a stressful and emotional time. You’re afraid to be excited about the possibility.

Im really hoping you get a positive test!

Pheasant28761 · 22/09/2023 20:42

Hey I’m kind of similar in that I’ve felt stomach cramps and like my period is going to come on for the past 3 days and it hasn’t (unlike me). Period is due today/tomorrow but BFN from early detection test today so I think I’m out, but it’s irritating when you have very different symptoms to your normal and you’re desperate for a BFP. I really hope you get your BFP this month :)

DawnWW · 22/09/2023 22:49

Thanks both. I did a test today and it was BFN. Now 3 days late and feeling really quite ill so wondering what's going on. I guess it could just be stress though. Considering testing with FMU tomorrow then trying to stop thinking about it for a week to see if anything happens. I'm so confused by my body right now

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Hiddenvoice · 23/09/2023 07:36

I’m sorry to hear you’ve both have negative tests, it’s so frustrating and upsetting.

@DawnWW could you maybe be coming down with something/ caught a bug?

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