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How common is it really for a HPT to not pick up pregnancy straight away.

16 replies

bigfatmom · 01/03/2008 17:40

Hi

I am cd 31 with no sign of AF.
Tested today and got a BFN feeling really gutted.

Is there still hope that I could be pregnant and the HPT didn,t pick it up.

Can I have all your experiences of not finding out your pregnant until further along.

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pinkgirl30 · 01/03/2008 17:55

we are in a similair situation bfm
i am cd 35 with no sign of af
tested yest cd 34 and got bfn
i anm still hoping.
read on other mums net threads that hpt can pick up as late as 8 wks
with my first pregnancy got a bfn @ 5 wks
didnt find out till i was 7 wks

Disenchanted · 01/03/2008 17:57

Do you know how far ovulation you are?

When I was 8, 9, 10, 11 days past ovulating I got BFNs with DS2,

but on 13 DPO i got a +

Goodluck!

NatalieJane · 01/03/2008 18:05

Hi again

I was thinking you about this morning, wondering if you'd got an answer yet, you poor thing, still not knowing. You get to the point after a while where you think you'd be as relieved at your period coming as anything is better than the limbo don't you?!

There is still hope, have mentioned I was 9 days late before I got a BFP, and others have been much later still.

Wish I could be of more help, but there really is nothing to do other than wait it out, and keep banging on on MN about it of course!

Fingers crossed you will have an answer soon

bigfatmom · 01/03/2008 18:05

Disenchanted

I haven't got a clue when I ovulate.

I am ttc without opk's, temping, etc, I fell pregnant within 2 cycles last time by just hoping to strike lucky.

I am alot older now though.

I feel very negative atm.

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bigfatmom · 01/03/2008 18:08

NatalieJane

I am so dissapointed and I am sick of the whole business, and I am not getting any younger.

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NatalieJane · 01/03/2008 18:10

You are bound to have ups and downs, it really is a shitty time.

Can you plan a nice evening with DP/H? A good DVD, maybe a glass of wine (or a few?!! ) chocolate? Anything that will give you a bit of a break from thinking about it.

NAB3wishesfor2008 · 01/03/2008 18:11

What does cd stand for? I am guessing something day

Good luck btw to everyone.

bigfatmom · 01/03/2008 18:12

I will try.

I wish I could take the view that if it happens it happens, and if not so be it.

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NatalieJane · 01/03/2008 18:21

NAB, CD is cycle day (i.e. number of cycle days since the first day of your last period)

BFM, don't worry, not many people can be so relaxed about it happening, or not. And although the advice rolled out is to do just that, relax, it is nigh on impossible.

Was it you I sent the link to for the ultra early tests? They say they can pick up HCG from 10ml, I don't know for sure if they are as good as they claim, but it might be worth getting some (I think you can get them on eBay for a couple of pounds as well) They may not work, but at least it would give your mind a slightly different trail of thought until they arrive.

I think that is one of the problems, you can't stop thinking about it, but there isn't actually that much you can think about at the moment, the same few sentances just keep going around and around.

bigfatmom · 02/03/2008 18:58

cd 32 today still no AF.

I have a feeling that I am simply just going to miss one.

I am feeling really annoyed about it, how dare it mess me around again like last time.

I did buy some ultra sensitive tests off ebay which were 10ml.
Tested yesterday with them but BFN.

I will test again in a few days if no AF just in case.

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pinkgirl30 · 03/03/2008 08:28

morning bfm
i tested this moprning bfn on cd 37 and still no af i am going to test in a wk if no af

pinkgirl30 · 03/03/2008 08:29

morning bfm
i tested this moprning bfn on cd 37 and still no af i am going to test in a wk if no af

Jackstini · 03/03/2008 08:32

Hi bfm - mine didn't show up on a hpt until day 41 (a full week past my period due date).
Fingers crossed for you

pinky36 · 03/03/2008 09:07

pinkgirl

Just posted you on another thread, my AF came this morning feel really !

Theres still hope for you if Af hasn't arrived! How long are your cycles again, have you had to wait this long before it arrives? If not id go and see your GP, he maybe able to give you some answers or give you a blood test! If its any consolation with my DD i didn't get a positive until 7 weeks! xxx

pinkgirl30 · 03/03/2008 09:10

hi pinky36 sorry that you have af
i am guessing that as i came off the pill on jan23rd to start trying that it has messed up cycle!!

Jackstini · 03/03/2008 22:50

Could have done PinkGirl. When I came off the pill before I had dd my cycles increased by a day every month. Started off at 27 days and by the time I caught 9 months later was 35 days!

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